I've posted a couple of times before and in them I have mentioned that my DHV is being a competing rock climber. I usually (read: never) don't try to pick up girls at the climbing gym, but today was different. I've been trying to be more open and get sets open even in my regular life as practice. I introduced myself to a girl that I see at the gym a lot and she calls over her friend. The three of us get to talking and it eventually breaks down to the friend and I. I see that there some interest. My usual practice is to bring in DHV to the convo, but it is obvious that I climb as does everyone else, so it won't elevate me. My other DHV is that I slackline and highline (think tightrope walking in nature), but there is a slackline at the gym, so that doesn't work either. I am left with absolutely at a loss for how to DHV. Long story short my #-close fails (partly cause I didn't kino enough), but I was able to leave things open to a possible second try and left things on a note of her needing me (she was only able to finish routes when she said that she would give them a try, I told her that was bs--she was going to get the routes) TL;DR: My DHV is rock climbing and slacklining. This doesn't work as a DHV at my climbing gym, so I skipped the DHV. Was this the right thing to do?