This comment made me wonder if Seddit is familiar with this technique.

maxormis · 2011-01-15T16:27:50+00:00

Being good with kids is a very interesting skill, that I don't posses but I'm always amazed of it. Some girls especially a so good with them it's not funny.

I watched an ex of mine meet the daughter of a friend for the first time once and she just opened her arms wide and was like "Come here you little frog" and the kid jumped her like it was her mommy she hadn't seen for weeks and wouldn't let go of her. I think there's a lot of body language and vibing going on there which is quit tangential to pickup.

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-01-15T16:13:22+00:00

I've always done well with kids, which impresses the mothers. I guess this is just another set to keep on top of the social dynamics. Befriend the obstacles (the kids) or they are going to block you. If the kids like you, you are pre-selected.

chumpta · 2011-01-15T21:28:53+00:00

the dhv "leader of men" needs to be changed to "leader of people." i've read before about how "alpha" is defined differently in humans as opposed to other animals. with other animals it's pure physical power. but with humans it's the power of numbers. people who inspire (or perhaps intimidate) other people to join their side and work together. a sense of how to interact with children is a part of that general quality.

frogma · 2011-01-15T22:40:51+00:00

I have 2 little brothers. I've never NOT had sex with a girl who's met them, and seen me interact with them. I'm really good with kids and animals- girls definitely notice. It's basically because you're showing this feminine, soft side (which shouldn't happen too often), and they're pleasantly surprised to see it.

PuaInDisguise · 2011-01-17T22:20:43+00:00

I can testify to the social proof provided by being good with children.

My most recent related success story involved me being invited to a going away house party for a chick that was digging me, but I didn't peruse (she was only HB6). After arriving to party, it turned out that she had her little cousins there and some other family. I've always been good with kids, and they all came up to me to play. We must have played water guns, hide n seek and tag for a couple of hours in total. I was actually having a blast, as this was much more interesting than the party itself. Well, after going inside, one of my friend's HB8 friend's pulls me into her bedroom, and, blam. Later she told me that she was impressed by the way I was having fun with the kids. (no pedo).

2011-01-15T15:25:30+00:00

I think this is a critical point:

I had a first date with a guy I was VERY interested in.

But I do see the value in something like this -- I mean, if you're trying to attract a woman that's looking for a husband/father, and if you have the skills, then play to your strengths.

Box-Monkey · 2011-01-15T20:40:35+00:00

Aside from confidence, being good with children/animals is definitely a close second for women. Good observation.

Title	This comment made me wonder if Seddit is familiar with this technique.
Author	JoshuW
Upvotes	6
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Date	January 15, 2011 2:36 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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