I had a friend who came into town this past Friday and brought one of his friends with him. Let’s call him ‘Drew’ and his friend ‘John’. They were in town visiting their friend ‘Melanie’.

So Friday night we all meet up at the local bar and hang out and catch up. One of my friend’s, Callie, also came. She’s a short brunette probably an HB7- banging body, but face, meh.

Callie had to leave early because she had to pick her brother up from the airport, but Drew, John, and Mel and I all went to a bar in Old Town that stays open a bit later. I was kind of ignoring Mel most of the time and focusing on catching up with Drew and getting to know John.

At that point in time, Melanie seemed kind of like a bitch to me.

It turns out that one of the bartenders is actually friends with my DJ buddy and is looking for a DJ at this place. It was pretty ghetto that night, so I’m not sure if I’ll do it, but it was still cool to make that connection.

We broke for the night and went home.

The next night, we all met up at the Mexican restaurant and had some margaritas and dinner. I wasn’t too hungry so I just got some spicy ceviche. I was sitting to Mel’s left and actually got to talk to her a little more this night. I didn’t neg her, I didn’t touch her, it was all just basic interview conversation topics.

I was telling interesting stories and such but I wasn’t trying at all. She wasn’t flirting with me, and I wasn’t flirting with her.

Then we went to my place to ditch the car and call a cab to go downtown. She liked my apartment, though it wasn’t as clean as I thought it could be- oh well. We had a beer while we waited on the cab.

Well, I got the bitch seat. In the middle between her and John. On the way there we were all talking and she started flirting with me. Scrunched in the back, she started making small quips and negs towards me, which I dished right back.

The first place we went to was one where I knew the General Manager. We walked in and it was PACKED. Very posh spot, lots of attractive people. I also ran into my other friend, Jamie who is an HB8-9. We talked for a bit then I went upstairs with my group and met the GM and talked to her for a bit. I introduced my group to her and then we went to get drinks.

At the bar, we were deciding on drinks and she couldn’t decide. The bartender was coming and I told her “If you don’t decide in the next 5 seconds, I’m deciding for you.”

She didn’t and therefore received a cranberry vodka. I got a dirty martini.

We perched on the catwalk to people watch. Again, I was really checking out the crowd and not really paying attention to her. It didn’t seem that she was having a good time as she wasn’t actively conversing- probably still pissed about my drink selection.

We left there because it was hot as balls upstairs and went to a hookah bar down the street. Yep, I also knew the bartender/manager there and talked to him for a bit- introducing everyone to him. Coincidentally it was hot as shit in there too- but we stayed. I ordered a hookah and a round of drinks. Turns out she really likes hookah. I grabbed a chair to her right, Drew to my right, John to my right.

After we had a few drinks, I started doing some kino. Guys this stuff works wonders- you’ve got to master this!

Just in conversation, I would touch her arm. If someone said something funny- we laughed and I squeezed her upper arm gently. If I whispered something to her (usually pointing out people while peoplewatching), I would touch her arm. Getting her attention? I would bump her leg with the back of my hand.

She called me a ‘showoff’. I told her ‘hey, I can’t help it. I’m the mayor of this town!’

We racked up a huge bill here between shots, hookah, and cocktails (ouch). I told them I’d cover it, just give me some cash and we all split the bill.

Next up we went to a club that I DJed at a couple of times. I knew the eastern European bouncer and surprisingly he remembered me (I wasn’t expecting it at all). He told me that he could get me in with no cover, but the guys had to pay. I spotted them and we went inside. This place was packed too-like way packed. More packed that I’m comfortable with. I turned and took her hand to pull her through the crowd as I led the group to the back bar where another person I knew was working. Yep, introduced them to him as well.

We were all standing in a circle by the bar, almost shoulder to shoulder because it was so crowded. I was doing a little mild dancing as well- just kind of rocking side to side since it was so busy.

Then my hand brushed hers and she started playing with my fingers, and I played back- stroking the palm of her hand, interlacing fingers, stroking her wrist. This was totally sneaky and not made to be visible to Andrew or John. Then I started running my fingers up the small of her back, and when John and Andrew weren’t looking- up the back of her neck and into her hair.

I don’t know why I was being sneaky about it. Shrugs.

On the way out, she was holding my hand and turned to me. She wanted to kiss me but I didn’t do it. I didn’t puss out, I meant to not kiss her. That’s because as soon as she turned away, I pulled her back into me and planted it on her. We made out there, and in the taxi on the way back (sitting in the back). We got back to my place and she wanted to stay, but both the guys wanted to leave.

Whatever, they left and I got her number from Andrew as they made their way back home. I txted her and we made plans for later (last night). Come to find out, there was a history between Mel and John and he was trying to hook back up with her on this trip. Whoops! Not my problem.

TL;DR: Met a girl, had a one-ton dumptruck full of social proof, made out, got dates, AMOG'ed a guy on accident (see: like a boss)

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