Last night I opened a couple of girls hanging out near us at the bar. Everything went fine, but I was with a birthday party and we were moving on, so I got the pretty ones number and left it at that. Before long I went home because I had to be up early today.

Turns out my buddies ended up seeing that same two set later and both got their numbers. I was kind of annoyed with them for it, because I felt like I did all the hard work opening them to begin with only for them to circle back later after I went home, but ended up apologizing for being testy.

I was wrong to be mad at them, firstly because they are my friends and whatever I have is theirs. Secondly, I wasn't married to that two set, I just approached and closed them.

I'm always annoyed when I approach girls and suddenly every dude in the place takes it as an open invitation to leap into the conversation. This is especially true when friends are involved because I do not want to overtly alpha dog my friends, but whenever it happens I feel like saying hey man, get your own set.

I'm the only one of my friends that I know who will cold approach. I worked hard to get rid of AA and now its like everyone wants to ride my balls to chatsville.

Still, I should just let it happen and be my awesome self and reap the rewards.