The other day I met a girl I hadn't seen in a year or more. We hit it off and I ended up having sex with her. The sex was good, we talked all the next day and hungout for a few hours. I dropped her off where she needed to go. I'm leaving town for a few days on on Thursday, and she told me that we, "I should call her before I left." So the next day I text her and ask her what she is doing for the night. Shes tells me she not really doing anything and just taking it easy. Tonight I call her and she is going to be kinda busy but later she probably can hangout. So I text her later and she tells me she is just gonna go down town for a while and then walk home. This doesn't sound very invitational to me so I text her back telling her that she better not be a weirdo about us hooking up. I figure this disqualified myself mildly and would make her want to show me she isn't. She doesn't respond to this text and about an hour later I call her she picks up then hangs up. At this point I text her again saying "dude you are my friend but I have to tell you, you aren't being friendly right now." No response. Her phone may have died or something when I called her.

My questions: 1. I feel like I might have over texted/contacted, is that really enough to ruin someone I've already f-closed? 2. After a hook up how long should one wait before contacting, was one day too early? 3. What is the best route from here?

I'm on the verge of nexting her but I don't know if I should. She is cool and I want to hangout again.