*Background: Kinda antisocial engineer at university in CA. I am too ridiculous at times and say a bunch of stuff that ruins attraction. Life motto: "Life's too important to take seriously"

So last week I decided to hit up a college party even though I was tired and should be doing an EE pset. Tell myself that I gotta just get out there and go for it, even if i need to study.

I head to the party. Over there I open up to a mixed set of a few guys and girls, talking about random stuff. Trying to be more social. Its an around the world party and each room has different alcohol. I roam around room to room chatting with people. I meet up with my friend's roommate who I met just yesterday and chat with her(HB4) and her friend HB7, mostly ignoring HB7. HB7 introduces herself to me while I was talking to HB4. I talk about my experiences studying abroad and the crazy stuff I did to HB4 while HB7 listens. I bounce and continue drinking and hanging out and getting in to more sets. We bump into each other a few times through out the next hr.

Later I'm feeling in state? Go to the dance floor and whadyaknow. Those 2 girls are standing there at the edge. Grab HB7 by the arm, tell her to dance, and she starts grinding on me. Trying the uh alpha dominant stuff i keep on hearing about. Shes into it. I turn her around so that we are face to face. By then I'm trying to super kino. Hands on ass, grabbing her hair. Shes grabbing my ass too. Guess its time for K-close. Go for it and she turns her head.... wtf bleh. kiss on cheek. She tells me that she doesn't make out to people she just met. I am just like ok...... She is only 20 or 21 and I guess immature? Continue dancing for a while. then move over to the side. Talk to my friend and her friend and her.

Shit tests ensue. I talk and continue kino: Q: "Don't you know boundaries?" A: "Yeah, I test them."

Q: "How are are you?" A: "Let's just say that you're too young for me"

Q: "You are too drunk." A: ??? said something like "I haven't drank in years" (She never saw me drink that night) I should have said something better.

More stuff but i forget. HB4 looks bored. Danger! ask friend to distract her.

Talking gets boring. Grab her by the arm and tell her to dance again. I'm doing even more kino +dominant? hands on T&A and shit like lifting her up and dancing, throwing her against the wall and trying to k-close again. only on the cheek or lips? cant remember. We stop and move over to a place to sit. I grab her and she gives me a lapdance while my hands are in her pants and im kissin her tits.

Party ends. We bounce. Get tea at a coffee shop. HB4 tags along. Chat about boring stuff. She is kinda drunk. I'm in control. Head back to HB4 place. Last chance to K-close. bleh. doesnt work out... seriously?

Walk her back to her place. Forget to ask her for her phone#. sigh, not even a #close. what a night. next day fb message her to go to mutual friends house and have a dinner im cooking. No response. Eh I'm over it now. but she is still a trending topic/joke with me and my friend. Any thought/comments/suggestions?

tldr; In college, got very physical but she refuses to makeout on first night. no # or k-close.