Tips/advice/links for tinder dates?

Rollo_Mayhem3 · 2018-08-29T18:53:25+00:00

Quick Guide To Banging in 2 hours or Less Tinder Sluts.

Edit: Assumption: TINDER Chick is a slut down to fuck under the right conditions that you create.

Arrive 5 minutes late <she will usually text you "here.")
Kiss cheek and hug immediately upon greeting. If she met you out front of venue, you lead her inside and select the seating. You want to be able to easily touch and kiss her from your seat.

AAA Game Bonus: if she suggests a place or says here's cool, say no, i can't touch/kiss you from there, wink or not even looking at her and act as if you just didnt say that. Certainly could come off as too intense, but if you are nonchalant and yet cocky AF, you can ride that one. If you are a starter, do not try it.

Order the first round. If you want to do the whole convo about going dutch, whatever. I sometimes slap a $20 down and say that's our budget. What you are NOT is buying round after round. I'll usually order for her, say two beers, two glasses of wine, or two rum and cokes. That's it.

Caveat- If she wants to pay, let her. As you receive your beer, you can say cheers, click, sip, and kiss her again, and say thanks as you move in or just after the kiss.
If you buy the round, keep the convo light, her ask questions, normal small talk but you are looking her in eyes at this time. You are lookijg to arouse her, make her look away <submission> and demonstrate confidence. Certainly glance around and investigate your environment. Quick glances at other chicks asses, but don't stare at her or other chicks. Natural, normal attention to the entire environment without appearing distracted or way too intense.

5- After the first round, you need to segway into a French kiss. She needs to know you will fuck her tonight. I'm pretty smooth so usually try to find something she said to play on words into kissing.

 Ex. She might say to me, "this drink is really sweet"

I would then say something like,

Ex. "i bet your lips are too"

...and I move in for the kiss. It doesn't really matter what you say, it's all about expectancy. Assume attraction, assume shes a horny slut, and just act on those assumption giving her enough plausible deniability. And a little effort to seduce her. You two are playing a role.

After the kiss, gauge her receptivity.

Did she touch you during the kiss? Did she touch you and keep her hand on you? Did she massage or rub you after the kiss? Did she put her hair up? If it is yes to this, keep kissing her and cut the date time down. She's hot and ready, imo. Did she come back for another kiss?

These are almost always positive signs that she's attracted and turned on by you. Hand to your leg or tights and I am asking for the check. Remember this is within the first 15 to 25 minuted depending how long it takes to drink the beer.

Kiss without touch, have her order the next round and repeat. kiss her again during this time and gauge her level of arousal. No touch, then you are finishing the second round and grabbing her hand saying let's go.

You have to choices, cab to your apartment or venue close by that is darker and had music dancing area. Cab to the apartment is based on your confidence you can fuck her or will try to fuck her and don't care if she doesn't. I usually go to another place to double check shes ready or to build even more arousal by touching her ass, waist, and heavy extended kissing.

Tell her lets go and lead her to a cab/uber and start making out in the cab, tell her to drape her legs over yours. you sit normally legs spread and she lays down so you have to bend over her to kiss her and she has to hold your massive arms or wide back to make all this work. Your hand is on her tights grabbing tightly or up her skirt, if she shows no resistance to any of your advances. YOU ESCALATE until you hit a no. Then back off and repeat.

Choice is yours.

GL.

clausternn · 2018-08-29T18:26:52+00:00

What do you mean reiteration of core TRP principles? The sidebar has your reiterations.

Focus on the articles about kino escalation, shit testing, and push-pull.

RedSkeller · 2018-08-29T19:20:09+00:00

Meet up Just meet up ASAP. Strike when the iron is hot. If she’s eager to message you back and consistently does so within a 30 minute to 1 hour window, just set up the date/ask for number/give number. If she’s on Tinder she’s looking for RIGHT NOW, so escalate the meetup. Younger women especially (18 - 23) will forget you within 24 - 48 hours, so just schedule something for the next day. The longer you wait, even if you had great banter is forgotten so fast your head will spin so act accordingly in the moment and get in the habit of closing every match.

Take them somewhere you feel comfortable and is a second home. Neighborhood pubs are great for this, I even had a designated first date bar for a while. Pretty sure the staff knows I’m a douche but who cares. Most of the time it doesn’t matter, they’re anxious to meet up and she’ll come see you unless she is unreasonably far (which is why you keep your distance to 20 - 40 miles).

1 -2 drinks tops before moving bars. Transitioning to the next venue also allows a good time to make a move in an alleyway or parking lot. Many times you can say you’re going to the next place but then make a move and invite them straight over. I started with a drink or two before pulling them back to my place but I’m down to a beer/coffee and book - don’t waste your time. Bonus: If she can’t drink you have a bottle of wine at your place.

Wear comfortable clothing, something you wear day to day. Don’t dress up or over do it, it screams tryhard. Play your strengths. You want to keep the vibe of being casual and relaxed. Nothing says uptight or invested like a collared shirt or anything suit related. I wear a beat up t shirt with holes and levi jeans that are old. That being said it’s part of my ‘look’ - so whatever comes natural to you, just own it.

Hug her before she sits down, give her a big bear hug and it’ll break the ice better than words. I like showing up 5 minutes late. Most women will run late and I hate waiting. Also if they wait I think it makes you look better. I’ve also arrived early to have a drink and do some work. Either one works.

Don’t have them come over your place for the initial meet unless you have a hard excuse to kick them out or have no other options. I’ve had bad experiences with weird chicks that won’t leave or take the hint. It’s worth it to just screen them at a bar first nearby. Also no one is coming right over your place for the first meet, it sends the wrong vibe.

In the event of a flake: Don’t panic, don’t send them shit. Don’t try immediately to reschedule. If she’s on the fence and messages you, tease her and she’ll come out. If she leaves you without a good reason or ghosts then fuck her and move on. Examples: “Let’s grab drinks Tuesday” / “I can’t Tuesday but I can Thursday” = Interest. “Let’s grab drinks tomorrow night” / “I can’t tomorrow” = Low interest/Wait a few days to a week and then try again “Let’s grab a drink Wednesday” / “I’m busy” = No interest/Validation Seeking/Lose her number Stops talking or doesn’t confirm date/Leaves you hanging - assume date is off. If she texts you that you blew her off, tell her you had no idea it was still on and reschedule.

On playing it cool: It’s always best to assume a shit test and either deflect, tease or ignore. In most cases, if you’re not upset by her cancelling it shows even more frame and most of the time women flake because they are women. Once you get in the swing of things this lesson becomes muscle memory. Obviously the only emotion to avoid here is anger/sarcasm/being butthurt. Here are some examples: “About drinks tonight, weather looks really bad out”/ “You’re not scared of rain are you?” “I’m sorry something just came up can we reschedule”/“Sure no problem”

Closing Your date should be 30 minutes - 2 hours max. You want to keep it short, fun and interesting. This builds for date two. I’ve made the mistake of staying out with women I’ve liked and I’d rather piss them off with a short date (they think they fucked up) than to get a longer date and feel comfortable.

At the very least you are going to kiss every girl. At best, you’ll fuck them. This is never in your mind however, you will do so when you feel the moment is right. Any pause over 3 seconds with eye contact is grounds to make a move. This becomes second nature shortly, and it’s not a big deal. It’s important to let her know you are interested in sex and makes things exciting. As stated before I usually let a drink or two soak in before doing anything, as if you get touchy too fast it’s uncomfortable and forced. She’ll pretty much know right away if she wants to fuck you or not anyway. Best set up is to say you’ll walk her to her car and when she goes for the hug again just go for the kiss. Don’t kiss her if you secretly want to be best friends and for her to think you’re gay and want plenty of ASKTrp material for the next day.

Hopefully you’ve gone back to one of your respective places, or cars and there is a heavy petting zoo underway. You’ll want some resistance, otherwise double wrap your dong, but keep pushing for the next thing. Push for the hard ‘no’, for a three strike. When I’m making out with a chick I usually rub her over her clothes and then slide down the back of her pants. If she hasn’t stopped me I might start hooking around her ass and fingering her through the back of her underwear. If I’m still rolling, I’ll continue to finger her and grab her hand and put it on my hard cock. By then it’s usually a gesture to take off my pants or hers and fuck.

Once you get the no, back off a bit and tell her something reassuring and then start over at just making out. Work back to that place slowly and see if you can push it. If you can, keep going until the next hard no. After 2 or 3 no’s and no progression, cut your losses and save it for the second date.

D. Bonus - have a nice pad stocked with wine, liquor, incense or whatever else sets the move. Have music or a video ready to go so you can throw on some background noise while you chill. Second dates should be set up within a week of the first meet and it’s common courtesy to set it up within 24- 48 hours after the first date. So if you met up Thursday at 10pm and went out and had sex, it’s a good idea to text her by Saturday night at the latest to starting moving towards a second date. Or don’t and go full IDGAF and watch her squirm.

Reschedules/Cancels happen, so play it cool and see the above section on flaking. Usually if things went well you’re fine, because she would just ghost you otherwise.

One of the benefits of meeting up over the app instead of having phone numbers is you can easily ghost her if you didn’t want to see her again. I’ve had some decent lays but it was so easy I just didn’t bother to set it up again.

Second dates should also be low effort, in terms of another night drinking, inviting her over for a movie or making food, give her a good reason to accidentally fall on your dick.

Your goal with the next dates is to fuck her, early and often. Every woman can get dick but good dick is rare, so give her the top shelf dick game. If you fuck her, and can do so again within the next few days, do it - as it sets the tone and eliminates buyer's remorse. If you do get a number you can cross reference their insta/facebook through adding them as a contact and then searching for contacts. This gives you a better idea of who you are actually meeting up with.

bulletzdz · 2018-08-30T02:47:30+00:00

Meet at a place 5-10 mins from location where you can close. (Be it car, your place, or her place).

Setting up a date at her place is 99% guarantee a lay, unless you are autistic.

Other than that, set date at a location for a drink which has booths (so you can sit side by side, never face to face), soft music playing in background, darker lighting for good ambiance.

Order drinks for you and her if she doesn't know what drink to get. Order appetizer if she's not sure if you two will eat.

Build heavy rapport, aim to make her laugh handful of times. Don't talk about yourself too much, ask her about her life. Be charming, attractive, non-needy, and have good body language.

Laughter kills deep rapport and connection.

30 to 60 minutes into date mins, after you've finished app and drinks, you pull.

1st Pull: hey, want to have a drink at my place?

she says yes, you drive her or walk. if she has a car, you tell her you'll drive and bring her back later. if she insists on driving, let her follow.

once you arrive at your place, build rapport still for 15-20 mins, so you don't seem like a thirsty scum bag.

get her wine or drinks, then escalate and close if possible.

if she says no (you live too far, she has curfew, shes not comfortable yet). Proceed to option 2.

2nd pull option : hey, want to have a drink in my car? (always pre buy a cheap rockstar drink or the like and store in your car before the date, if you don't have car, carry it with you and attempt to pull in public areas like parks, washrooms, hidden alley ways etc.

she says yes to your car pull, you pay the bill. walk her to car, command her to get in the back.

crack open a drink ,chit chat 5 mins, escalate and close if possible.

Only time I recommend to physically escalate is once you are back at your place, her place, car or location for sex. Some people may escalate earlier and say it works, but if you go on 10 tinder dates, a good number of them will most likely reject sex if you escalate too early and come off like a horn dog.

clausternn · 2018-08-29T18:26:02+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8ykwpg/how_to_really_succeed_at_tinder_20_add_onsupdate/

DirtJellyBeanz · 2018-08-29T23:59:34+00:00

Can we get a list like this for general life TRP rules

Toxik6 · 2018-08-30T05:29:44+00:00

I get on tinder and am dryer than the desert. What’s your tinder technique.

wkndatbernardus · 2018-08-30T00:47:08+00:00

"I'm going over to a birds house"

Since you're clearly a Brit, I'd advise studying the successful colonization techniques of your native country and then implement them in the dating sphere.

Step 1: Oppression - Tell her where to meet you and what to wear (hint: go to a beach and have her wear a thong bikini...oh wait, you're in England:-/). Also, she pays for your Uber.

Step 2: Humiliate - upon reaching the venue, tell her she has a booger hanging out of her nasal passage. Also, say something like, "you smell. Did you just bust ass?"

Step 3: Subdue - Kino the shit out of that B. Only if she's hot, though. Otherwise, stop at step 2.

Step 4: Conquer - when the British ethnically cleansed the Scots, part if their strategy was instituting "prima nocta".

Title	Tips/advice/links for tinder dates?
Author	Jimmy_Greenteeth
Upvotes	12
Comments	28
Date	August 29, 2018 6:12 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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