What's an expected Tinder girl to lay ratio?

atticusfinch1973 · 2018-08-30T11:25:24+00:00

Don't worry about numbers, worry about increasing your skills so you get laid more often.

Think of it like batting average. When you're first starting out you might get 1 in 10 with an average of an HB 5. The goal is to reduce that to 1 in 5 with higher quality women, not worry about an artificial number.

If you're wasting money taking girls out - stop doing that. Free dates are totally possible and first dates should almost always be something low key and no cost.

NightwingTRP · 2018-08-30T12:57:46+00:00

Match to arranged plans ration won't be great. If you're getting 50% then you're doing pretty well.

Plans/drinks/netflix+chill to lay ratio should be pretty high. If you're under 80% then you need to work on your game and/or SMV.

These stats are rough, as with many things dealing with the more emotional gender YMMV.

koedeloe · 2018-08-30T10:32:40+00:00

Been using it on and off for a couple of years, went out with like 5 girls using this app. Probably had hundreds of matches but I only hooked up with 5 so my Tinder girl to lay ratio is pretty low.

Tinder is fun if you're on the toilet/bus/train or whatever but it shouldn't be your main goal for finding girls. Girls on Tinder don't need to put in effort because they legit have hundreds of whiteknights messaging them. I've got 100+ numbers from Tinder but a lot of them flake, have no personality, are boring, look for validation, are crazy...

So yeah.. it's a waste of time. Meet girls in real life. Tinder is a shitty ap nowadays

oytrp · 2018-08-30T14:06:06+00:00

Depends on what you're talking about.

Matches to lays?

N-Close to lays?

Dates to Lays?

Those ratios are all going to be low, except dates. Once you get them out on a "date" it should be pretty much 1:1 unless you fuck it up.

TheStumblingWolf · 2018-08-30T11:36:40+00:00

There's not like an industry standard for this. What kind of question is this? Are you getting laid as much as you want? good. Are you not? Figure out what you're doing wrong.

5hr00m · 2018-08-30T14:06:29+00:00

You got to feel their attraction level by text/phone call/social media before you waste time and money on tinder dates.

If you only date girls with high attraction level you might get 80-90% conversion ratio (dates that lead to sex), this is based on my own experience.

bulletzdz · 2018-08-30T17:37:48+00:00

90% closing ratio on tinder date 1.

100% on date 2.

Depends on your game, logistics setup, and attractiveness.

Helps to be shredded and jacked.

Title	What's an expected Tinder girl to lay ratio?
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Date	August 30, 2018 9:18 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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