Disclaimer: When I posted my first FR I was told women only do something like 20% of the seduction work; while I disagreed there, this was definitely the case with this FR. The main focus in this story is not my little contribution, but the tactics used on me that worked like a charm that maybe some guys can learn from.

Friday night, of course, and I am out clubbing with a friend. I am definitely out of state as the first two places I have been in have had loud music and no dancing, a combo which makes me feel like a fish on dry land (maybe need to work on that, but no idea what to do). Not opposed to hooking up tonight, but it's not a priority either - having good time, on the other hand, is.

This venue is painfully crowded and there is a lot of dancing and walking around, but the music rocks, so we stay. I spot a guy I have flirted with before around here (nothing major, a bit of dancing and light kino), and immediately open with strong eye contact, a wide smile, friendly kino and my favourite: the damsel in distress. I play the two helpless women in a sea of creepy guys card, and it hooks like magic, he sticks to us and starts to brush away the shady looking men that are trying to approach. Girls, trust me on this one: if there is even the slightest chance a guy might be interested, a damsel in distress opener is the way to go. Bastards love damsels in distress just as much as bitches love smileys. ;) (for the record, this is definitely my biggest merit in the four hour long seduction process)

Now, I have seen over and over how sedditors complain about their looks, especially height. Please bare in mind that this dude is maybe 5ft7 tall, if that, and not at all bad looking but totally not my type, in the least bit. I would generously rate him a HD7 though he may very well be a HD9 to others. Point being, the attraction had nothing to do with looks this time, but the way this guy carried himself. He made good eye contact, smiled a lot, had perfect posture (I cannot stress how important this is, whether you are 5ft or 7ft tall!!!), and his dance moves, well, let's just say they oozed confidence and sexuality. As a side note, he was also drinking non alcoholic beer (and not driving), which I take as a good indicator that a guy is down for business.

I'll fast forward through the next hour and a half where we gradually escalated kino in a somewhat playful manner: each time a group of guys would pass by in the crowd he would protectively pull me closer, and each time another dude would approach me I would put my arm around my "partner" and signal that I'm taken. After each of these "pulls" I thanked him politely and "pulled" myself away, until one time when I felt him hang onto me just a little tighter so instead of stepping away like I normally did, I just stayed next to him, looked him in the eyes and smiled.

From this point on, there was pretty much constant kino - hands on shoulder/back/sides - albeit very polite and respectful, which is a huge plus for a guy. If there is one thing that women generally dislike, it is men getting too gropy too soon, and grabbing a boob before she has been so turned on she is dying to have her boob grabbed.

The K-close tactic is similar to one I have seen described here before, but I will talk about it again. It can start with dancing together, but any kind of prolonged hug will do. As you are burying your face in the girl's hair, neck and shoulder area, gently start nuzzling and then lightly move your lips in a caressing motion. Transition to neck kissing, do this gently for a while, brush your lips along her chin and cheek, align with her lips and by this time she is probably so into it that she will initiate on her own. With the kiss, don't just go for it out of the blue, or rush to get over it. Make her want it. Badly. My guy got bonus points for breathing down my neck and teasing my lips with his for a good couple minute before sealing the deal. RAWR.

Another amazing tactic that I was very impressed with was this: During longer makeout sessions, there would be short and "secret" outbursts of passion. *For example, he would be kissing my neck, one hand supporting the back of my head, the other on my middle back, and he would suddenly press his hands much harder, pulling me towards him, as well as use a bit of teeth - all for a couple seconds, then returning back to normal, repeating when I least expected it. Now why this is totally hats-off awesome is two reasons: one, it sends me a message that he knows we are in public and playing nice, but deep down he would like to pin me down and devour me - which is incredibly HOT. And two, from the outside it's very difficult to tell that things are getting heavier, which makes me less likely to ASD. *In my experience, girls are more likely to ASD not because of the guy involved, but because of what other people might think, and I must admit I refuse to act obscene in public most of the time for that very reason. A guy who knows how to dismantle this is a shoe in.

Last, but not least, I loved how he definitely took charge of our interaction and alternated hot sessions with cool-down periods of dancing, bantering, smiling, and generally just owning the dancefloor. I remember a point where the two bartenders and DJ were simply staring at us, engrossed in our presence as he was twirling and throwing me around, and getting that look of desire on their faces as the dance became progressively more sexual. I felt comfortable and validated and definitely enjoyed the experience.

Some other small things he did worth mentioning: - trying to teach me a couple dance steps by leading me around. I mentioned I was horrible at that because the moment I start thinking about dancing I mess it up. To this his reply was to lead me further while brushing his lips against my neck. The shift in focus worked, and before I knew it I was gracefully sliding in his arms, who would've thunk! - he was doing the dip with me, and after lifting me back up, I wanted to shit test him a little so I asked "what if you had dropped me?", to which he replied "the only way I'll drop you is if I'll want to". Pretty smooth response.

In the end we went our separate ways because even though he seems like he'd be an awesome lay, I need greenlighting from a friend who has also fooled around with him in the past before I go any further. Sis code or something like that.

All in all, two conclusions: 1. I am proud of myself for generally letting myself be lead last night, and I definitely owe seddit for being able to tell that the guy knew what he was doing and trusting him more. 2. I had a stellar time with a relatively short HD7 that didn't do much for me physically, but definitely knew how to push my buttons, which I would choose any day over just enjoying myself with a HD9 who is mostly clueless about playing games of attraction and entertaining a partner.