Hi guys, I have this plate who I’ve been seeing quite frequently over long distance (quite expensive). Because I will go to college soon she thinks that I probably won’t see her again as I would be looking at other girls nearer to me or in college? She’s asked me on multiple times whether I wanted a relationship and I told her that I wasn’t sure yet as I didn’t know whether to pursue a LDR? Loads of red flags by the way.

Am I having scarcity mentality or oneitis? Am I stringing her along?

Is she giving me a shit test to see whether I would crumble and offer her commitment? Or whether I wouldn’t give a fuck and just soft next her to pursue other options?