Seddit, I was on a 4th date tonight and decided I was going to have fun regardless the outcome. In the past, it was recommended I next this girl due to her cold signals, but I figure I give her one more shot. It was the first time hanging out in over a month, and while I did have fun, I think I need to next the girl (or maybe I did something wrong).

What Happened

When we we greeted, we hugged, her face turned so I couldn't kiss her (gave her a cheek one). We got to the bar, and she wanted to sit down and the tables were face to face, not really allowing much kino time in. Got up and danced to a song on the jukebox a bit, and tried to kino a little bit then, but to be honest, was a bit hesitant due to past attempts. Still, she doesn't really reciprocate but doesn't straight up reject either (unless I try to pull her in).

Finally, after we leave and say goodbye, I drop her off and we hug (usually I would go for the kiss) but again, her face completely turned so I can't really kiss her. She confuses the hell out of me with this stuff.

Downward Slope

So it was already incredibly difficult to kino due to her receptiveness, and then made more difficult tonight due to the sitting situation. The fact that it's been a month since we've seen each other due to scheduling, does this knock me back to early date stages?

I'm really not sure what to do at this point. I really do enjoy hanging out with this girl, but physically, nothing is happening and I'm not sure if it's my fault or not, as I'm pretty new to this due to LTRs, but I feel like not kissing after a 4th date is ridiculious (we've kissed the most on a first date, some on 2nd, then barely any on 3rd, now none).

Body Language

I also get mixed body language from her. She will keep her arms crossed often, but will occasionally play with the hair and necklace some. I also think she might be nervous or just fidgety as well ( I tend to be fidgety when not nervous).

So, what do you think Seddit? I wish I could say I'm living in abundance right now, but I'm not at all. I don't have oneitis with this girl either though... I am started to get frustrated though and wonder if I'm fucking something up (I'm trying not to let it shake my confidence, but it's hard not to)