Girl who has a lot of Guy Friends

caveman_evolved · 2011-04-08T16:13:15+00:00

Guys I need to specifically get with this one specific chick whose not really into me because I don't lead or physically escalate. How do I make her think that I'm not needy so that she'll be into me enough to send me unambiguous signals so that hopefully I'll feel sure enough that I won't get rejected and finally make a fucking move?

frogma · 2011-04-08T16:09:45+00:00

I've been with a few girls like that. A couple of em were girlfriends, a couple were fuck buddies, and a few of em I hit and quit.

Her other guy friends obviously aren't escalating. So you need to escalate. If you've been hanging around her for a while without escalating, you're gonna have a tough time. The thing that will make you different is the fact that she's fucking you, and not fucking the other guys.

YOU NEED TO TAKE THE RISK. You need to make some moves, and be willing to lose her as a friend. She's either gonna be cool with it or she's gonna reject it, but even if she rejects it she'll probably keep you as a friend anyway. But don't even think about that shit ahead of time. You're a sexual being, she's a sexual being, and you guys are gonna have some sex. Make it happen- don't just bullshit with her and shoot the shit. Start getting more intimate.

revtrot · 2011-04-08T16:48:07+00:00

these girls are always tough. i know a few girls who just dont have very many girlfriends but have many guy friends. In my experience they are a lost cause. The best thing to use them for is wingwomen. But that is just my experience..

philosarapter · 2011-04-08T20:08:29+00:00

Simple: Don't be her guy friend.

Too many dudes have this wrong preconceived notion that you should become a girl's friend first, before moving onto something sexual.

Stop that. Do the opposite. Start with something sexual first and if it doesn't work out, then you can settle for friends. [Or drop her completely]

This means hang out with her only when you want to hook up with her, flirt have sex go out and spend one on one time together, but don't do "buddy buddy friend" shit.

Title	Girl who has a lot of Guy Friends
Author	emser
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	April 8, 2011 3:23 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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