This is something I've been trying, and I am not a master at this by any means (I get AA) and would love some people's input and goal ideas. However, I find that if I set a goal for myself right before going out, it helps me open.

One I've been using a lot is "must open up at least 2 girls that you find attractive". I know 2 isn't a lot, but small steps. I know I have an issue with opening girls in a group, so I might make that a goal as well. I recommend it for people with AA to set these small goals. Does anyone else have any goals that would help?