Previously: A yer ago, had a date, with a girl who had boyfriend. I tried to kiss her, got rejected. I then messed it up.

One year after (hadn't heard of her since then), she asked me to go to the theater. She paid for the theater tickets. I went aaaaall the way negging her, as she was really bad at map interpretation. Kino escalation started here, like placing my arm over her shoulders while we where walking. Just before the show, she mentioned her boyfriend/ex (I didn't ask), and that she had been in a male friend's house the night before, watching a moviee and having some icecream :S I ignored this, and kept on going, just having fun. During the show, just a couple of looks, but nothing more. We then went to buy some food for supper, and she paid it. Then, I played a little bit of piano for her at my place, and showed some of my band's song (I play bass guitar on a indie band). The other 2 members of the band are girls (singer+guitar and drums), so I guess she was a little bit jelous? She was very playful then.

After supper, we watched a movie. Well, I didn't pay much attetion. I grabbed her hand, and showed her a massage you can do on someone's hand. She loved it, and we kept on doing this massage during most of the night (the massage is basically rubbing someones skin between index and thumb, so we where basically holding hands). I did a massage to her back, she did it to me. Face massage... I also showed her how to do a foot massage for herself. After that, I told her about something I had read about vampires and biting necks, and went for it. I bited her neck softly, and asked her to bite back. She went very rough, and showd her again. She repeated the process. Then I told her she had damaged it, so she had to kiss it. She did.

After that, we relaxed a little bit, she lied down on the couch, and I was looking her from above. We looked at each other's face upside down. She grabbed my hand, and started doing massage again. I thought to myself that THIS was the point to kiss her. Upside down. But guess what: I didn't. Why? I don't know. I thought that during all this process, I was pulling too much. I did all the work, and she was just obeying me. I didn't feel comfortable. I thought that it was all compliance testing, and I couldn't find any more IOIs other than doing what I told her to do.

After a while, I took her home. We said we will meet each other next weekend. Hope things go at least this well. If we talk about all of these things, I will tell her: im not goint to try to kiss you this time. Now it is YOUR turn to make me be interested in you.