getting depressed when things don't work out

yokhai · 2011-06-23T14:38:39+00:00

Nothing is ever lost. You need to change the way you look at the game. Did you have a great time with these girls? Did you learn and grow from that experience?

Conversely, if they don't wanna be with you, fuck em find someones that do.

2011-06-23T22:58:21+00:00

don't give up. Persist.

bypatrickcmoore · 2011-06-23T07:37:57+00:00

Just try your best to move on. I still get a little anxious when the water starts getting rough, but you just have to steer the boat the best way you can. What's happening is that you're taking these flakes as hits on your self-worth. Don't let them.

Love fades. Injuries are a part of the game. Roll with it.

l3fth4nd · 2011-06-23T22:08:43+00:00

Stop getting down on yourself, you need to be on your own team. There are billions of women out there man, up to hundreds of thousands who I would bet pass as your 'soulmate'. Look at it as a learning experience, that pain will allow you to become more emotionally centered in the future. Be complete without the girls first. Also it may or may not help to learn how to lay pipe better.

l3fth4nd · 2011-06-23T22:09:06+00:00

Stop getting down on yourself, you need to be on your own team. There are billions of women out there man, up to hundreds of thousands who I would bet pass as your 'soulmate'. Look at it as a learning experience, that pain will allow you to become more emotionally centered in the future. Be complete without the girls first. ...Also it may or may not help to learn how to lay pipe better.

l3fth4nd · 2011-06-23T22:09:22+00:00

Stop getting down on yourself, you need to be on your own team. There are billions of women out there man, up to hundreds of thousands who I would bet pass as your 'soulmate'. Look at it as a learning experience, that pain will allow you to become more emotionally centered in the future. Be complete without the girls first. ...Also it may or may not help to learn how to lay pipe better.

l3fth4nd · 2011-06-23T22:09:42+00:00

Stop getting down on yourself, you need to be on your own team. There are billions of women out there man, up to hundreds of thousands who I would bet pass as your 'soulmate'. Look at it as a learning experience, that pain will allow you to become more emotionally centered in the future. Be complete without the girls first. ...Also it may or may not help to learn how to lay pipe better.

Reallybadpoet · 2011-06-23T10:02:20+00:00

Experience Yes. Advice None. .. I just don't know how people can stop loving someone if they truly loved the other person ever. I'm of the belief that everything can be worked out. Whatever be the differences. Whatever be the situation. It's all about putting in a little more effort into the relationship. But sadly the lady who left me a couple of months back didn't believe in the same thing. Ain't seeking any pity in here but just sharing my thoughts. I had lovced her and will always do, irrespective of what she feels about me. So.... moving on advice ain't my cuppa tea. Maybe some people in here can give a few tips but the final choice lies with you. I made a couple of throwaway accounts to try but have had no success. Maybe this thread will throw some more light on the issue. All the best for your future relationship and I hope it doesn't turn into relationships.

2011-06-23T14:19:19+00:00

You've got it all wrong, but knowing that should be very encouraging because that means there is a change you can make, and there is a better way.

Listen to this.

It's all about being centered in yourself as your own source of validation. Gaining validation from an external source not only is bad for you, but it also creates negative vibes that can be detrimental to others around you. Being depressed is lose lose, lose, and is entirely avoidable.

porphyry3 · 2011-06-23T12:56:47+00:00

Happens bro. If you are looking only for fcloses, the girl may understand and enable some protection mechanisms (if she does not want to become an FWB of course). Just be a little bit detached next time. AND HAVE FUN!

PosterKitten · 2011-06-23T14:02:51+00:00

It is a terrible hurt, but from the husk of one love springs the seeds of another. Life goes unstoppably forward, and in the end it is all about you, your choices, your desires, your actions and your love are the creative expression of who you are.

When romance falls apart, know that it was inevitable and drawing love out further than it's natural life gives no-one pleasure. Better to be a free agent than trapped in a dead romance.

Title	getting depressed when things don't work out
Author	roxxe
Upvotes	6
Comments	15
Date	June 23, 2011 7:33 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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