I've never posted here before but have subscribed and done some very mild lurking for a while. A recent event compelled me to post finally.

So the story begins with me and some friends at a bar. We ended up picking up some girls and went back to their place where we kicked it in a spa for a while. Some of the highlights included her sitting in my lap, grinding a bit and whispering dirty things into my ear but when I tried to press forward I got a lot of LMR. She would tell me she was a good girl and didn't do one-night stands but she'd whisper oh-so-dirty things in my ear and we did some light petting. Tried to seal the deal but I just couldn't get her to cross that bridge.

I had written this off and didn't really intend on trying to contact her again but I guess at some point during the night I gave her my number because she texted me the next day. We exchanged flirty text messages and I invited her to a BBQ that Friday but she had to work. That was a few days ago and I haven't attempted to text her back yet.

So two questions.

  1. What could I have done to make her cross that bridge that night.

  2. What's my next move? Do I just text her and try and strike up another flirty conversation or do I come right out and invite her somewhere? If I do should it be a group event (BBQ/bar/show/whatever) or something one-on-one.

Need some advice!