Hey Seddit, I need your advice.

My first real success from Game was about a month and a half ago, a skinny HB8 who came back with me to my apartment from the club and completely rocked my world in bed. Things started with fireworks and for the first 3 to 4 weeks, we hung out nearly everyday, staying out late together and having sex multiple times a day. It felt natural and the more we hung out, the more we found we had in common. The sex was beyond incredible. When we met I was only looking to be casual but we really hit it off and were having a ton of fun together so I started thinking, this could be more than just a series of hookups, this girl is actually cool. She couldn't keep her hands off me and we had a ton in common so I got the impression that despite her saying she wasn't looking for a boyfriend, she was clearly acting like she wanted to be more than fuck buddies.

This was not just in my head. mutual friends agreed that we were acting like a couple and they could see that she really liked me. Her and I agreed that we were exclusive and I really didnt care about the lack of an official title. I figured if things continued how they were going, and as long as she's not fucking other guys, I don't give a shit about a title.

I guess around the time I started feeling like maybe we had some potential, I started to notice her pulling back a little bit. I recognized this and I started looking into relationship game. Just like when I looked up Game to begin with, my mind was blown. I learned that even after you've won a girls affection and had sex with her, you must hold back some emotion and make sure you never appear to be more invested than she is. That means chill out on PDA in public. Don't hang out everyday. Don't be too available. You can't mirror the emotions of a girl who is all over you. You have to always give her back slightly less than what she gives you and make her CRAVE your attention or she will lose that passion that makes her want to jump all over you.

I found this information just a tiny bit too late. As soon as I realized that I was acting a little bit beta and tried to back off and correct the situation, she had already started becoming less available. She used to reply to my texts within 10 min, now it will be hours, if at all. We haven't had sex in a week and she has become flakey about making plans.

I think that she was clearly really into me at first but has told me she has some commitment issues & when we started getting really close, she got scared of getting attached and started backing off. combine that with me reacting like a beta to her signs of affection and spending too much time together and I can see how attraction has faded.

I do not have oneitis and I will not chase her but I still want to keep this going if possible because the sex was truly mindblowing. I'm feeling like our exclusivity may be coming to an end shortly and I need to take action to shake things up.

So what do you think, Seddit? I was thinking of breaking it off preemptively to show her im willing to let her go and telling her I'm not going to chase her. Hopefully withdrawing my attention and affection will turn things around and get things back to being casual.

Do you think I'd be doing the right thing? How would you react in this situation?

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TL;DR: Casual relationship started out with fireworks and incredible sex but she withdrew when I reciprocated her affection and opened up (betaization). Don't want to chase her so how do I break up like a PUA?