A plate I have not spoken to in a week calls and tells me how she tried to give head to some guy?

tayowsp · 2018-09-04T20:27:24+00:00

Ignore, keep fucking her with a condom. Never even consider promoting to FWB or LTR.

fnordsnord · 2018-09-04T20:51:44+00:00

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RylanBlackwood · 2018-09-04T21:17:17+00:00

Bat shit crazy mind games to make you monogamous. Hard next.

LucrativeMath · 2018-09-04T20:31:20+00:00

Lol she was clearly trying to upset you and make you jealous. If you have other plates, I would drop this one and let it shatter on the concrete.

Do you tell her about your attempts with other women? Sound extremely unattractive.

Your choice though. Everyone’s tolerance for shit like that is different.

900_year_old_vampire · 2018-09-04T20:41:08+00:00

she was just tryin to make you jealous or angry man. she knows exactly what shes doing, dont doubt that for a heartbeat. they do it on purpose. its pretty normal behavior though, who cares man. youre sleeping with other people too, right? allow her to make her transparent attempt at getting you angry.. its just a free opportunity to demonstrate that you really dont give a shit

fair warning though. in my experience, once they realize that you dont care about stuff like this, they start getting a lot more personal when they want to poke you. make sure you know where your lines are and enforce them

masterofreality20 · 2018-09-04T21:46:15+00:00

Like everyone else said just trying to make you jealous since you’ve not been hitting her up. You did the right thing in giving no reaction. You may have felt a little jealous (not saying you do, but that’s normal) but just accept that this girl has permanently disqualified herself as LTR material. So either continue to smash if you feel you can without developing any feelings, if not then it’s probably best to drop her for your sake.

T7773 · 2018-09-04T23:28:14+00:00

If only our phones had an indicator light for when a girl is shittesting. It would save men a lot of trouble.

Guys need to develop the subtle art of smelling a shittest right at the moment it glares it’s little faggot head because as fish is to water, girls spit this shit at a baser instinctive level. They don’t even think about it most times.

Cure for shittest : Amused Mastery. Agree and Amplify. Aloof Game. NEXT.

PS: CONSIDER EVERY SHITTEST A RED FLAG AND AN INSULT TO YOUR MANHOOD. When a woman meets THE right man for her, every speck of her naturally and socially coded mechanisms for choosing a mate simply EVAPORATE away and she becomes vulnerable. Which means that if she’s shittesting you then she’s not attracted to you in the carnal and primeval way she was attracted to the chad who’s kid she might make you raise.

ThrowFader · 2018-09-04T22:22:35+00:00

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Check-Your-Posture · 2018-09-04T20:43:00+00:00

I personally wouldn't tolerate shit like this.Its a shit test taken too far.Dump her

iphonepencil · 2018-09-04T21:24:44+00:00

Also to clarify, I made plans with her this weekend before she mentioned this shit. Considering cancelling and just taking another chick instead.

Then again, I don't want to seem butthurt about it either which was her goal in the first place.

[deleted] · 2018-09-04T21:35:46+00:00

Tell her great, bang all the dudes she wants. Tell her to brag to her girlfriends not you but good on her

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-09-04T22:42:41+00:00

I don’t want to be one of those guys that just says “ONEitis. Next”, but I’ve been in this exact scenario before and had a girl do this exact thing to me, and I do believe that if necessitated a post of asktrp then feels are creeping in. Just do yourself a service man and get out while you can. Cut the cord sooner rather than later

BuckNekkid18 · 2018-09-05T01:55:28+00:00

Lmao what the hell? Next her. That's disrespectful as fuck. All she was looking for was a reaction and you did will not caring about it. I'd honestly drop her if I were you.

Musicgoon · 2018-09-05T05:02:32+00:00

Ghost, next, and take some other chick out...

Don't put up with disrespect... Reading this pisses me off for you.

Title	A plate I have not spoken to in a week calls and tells me how she tried to give head to some guy?
Author	iphonepencil
Upvotes	4
Comments	35
Date	September 4, 2018 8:24 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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