So I went out with a buddy of mine and I'm realizing I'm decent at opening. I just approach kino, and speak and usually I'm well received. I still find I come off as too nice/friendly though, and I feel that is now the area I need to focus on for myself, having that sexual vibe but without the cheesy/sleazyness. Still I must be doing something right...I got 3 drinks bought for me over the course of the night...2 from chicks and one from a guy I was talking to at the bar.

I opened 10+ girls...a group of 3, a group of 4 bartenders who were out drinking for there night off from another bar...hell I even opened a couple just because the chick was so hot and I wanted to ping to see how well the dude could handle himself. I open guys trying to spit game at other chicks...just befriend the guy and all is well. Although I never cock block...if the girl is into the guy I don't interfere with what's happening.

But I want to focus on one girl from the night. She was a cute blond college girl and I first bumped into her at this art show I was at and made a joke about her eating from the mixed nut bowl.

A lot of the people from this art show went to a bar afterward, and I notice that she's at the bar as well. In my mind I make a note to speak to her again before the night is over.

Closing time and I notice she's still at the bar, with a group of girls, and she looks extremely bored. Looking at her phone, not facing her body towards her friends, so I play it so that we exit at the same time. I talk to her and her friends a bit, but I ask her if I can talk to her away from her friends. Of course her friends could probably still here as she only moved a foot or two away...but I say

"Listen. I think you're very attractive. I want you to come home with me." And. I. Don't. Flinch. I maintain eye contact and stand confidently.

She laughs, then see's that I'm still focused on her. Her pupils dilated, and she says no but she's now looking at me in a new way.

I then change the subject back to the art show, talk about how subjective art is, this and that. As I speak to her she is now completely fixated on me. Too bad her friends eventually pull her back to them.

I walk a few feet away and find my buddy, chat with him and some other peeps for a minute and surprise surprise, the girl walks back to our group and asks for a lighter. I don't smoke but I carry a lighter for such occasions. I mention that we will be attending an after party at a friends house and that she should come. She say's maybe, and I say "Ok that means yes."

So me and my buddy head to this party, and look who's there, but the same girl. She also ditched the girls she was with. BUT this party was very packed and people were kind of on top of each other, seating wise.

I work my way to her, sit next to her, and begin to chat her up. I kept it casual, especially since I was in such close proximity to other people I didn't want to make it too obvious I was hitting on her...I try to avoid putting that kind of social pressure on the girl. I ask her questions about herself, keep it focused on her, why she chose her certain career path, etc. she seemed interested enough to keep the convo going at times. She also kept playing with her phone every so often. Then boom. She gets up and leaves the party. Dosen't say bye to me, or anybody for that matter.

What should I have done differently at this party? The Apoc opener def. spiked her interest, she showed up by herself at this party, but then she seemed to eject out of there. Thoughts?