Hi,

Last week end I went in another city where I used to live to have a party with old friends. Turns out there was a cute HB7 that I never met before. I flirted with her and she was obviously turned on. The story of why I didn't close that night is for later.

So, this HB3 friend of mine saw the whole thing happening, she sure saw me has a sexual being at that point. She became flirty with me, and I did touch her arm at one point in the evening and I playfully stole some cigarettes from her. She went bersek after the HB7 was gone.

I honestly felt a bit insulted. Now she's texting me on facebook random shit and I'm just answering by "ok", "cool" 24h later. I feel bad for rejecting her but I think I should somehow. I don't want to go full beta because I'm pretty sure she's getting some sort of oneitis atm. How do I do that ?

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Now the HB7 part. So logistic sucked. The only place to fuck was at her place. That was a 20 minutes walk from where the party was standing. She had a strong anti-slut/feminist frame. She had planned to leave with her friend who had a car. I didn't figure a way to suggest we should both go there. That would have make her to feel slutty, especially in front of her friends.

So I took her number. I texted her the day after with some comfort shit. I asked her to send me a selfie and went silent. She delivered 2 day after. I then proposed a date, she said she can't (we don't live in the same city). After texting some more to show that I didn't care I went silent. She reinitiate the convo 2 days later by telling me that if I come to her city I should let her know. The texts that followed were a bit awkward and I think I messed up a little :

"

me - there's a party at a bar in your city, I'm gonna meet some friends there and go back home the morning after. we could find a moment to hang out before / after or in the meantime, send me a message.

her - at what time do you get here ?

me - around 6 pm.

her - ok i'll tell you.

(at that point I had the feeling that she had too much control over my schedule so this is where I think I messed up)

me - It'll be better if you meet me directly at the train station at 6 pm.

her - lol why ? We could meet in town, no ?

me - i'm afraid hordes of girls are going to harass me as soon as I leave the station, but we could meet in town yeah, let me know.

her - I maybe can't be there at 6pm but I got a friend to see after in the evening.

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(note this is all translation from another language)

Last text from her was this morning, the meet up is for today.

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My plan is to not text her and go party with my friend (and game girls obv) until she hits me.

The guy friend of her she mention in the last text is obviously a big no for me if she tries to arrange some meet up with him next.

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