And when was the breaking point? When did it all start to come together and you were able to make it work for you?

I found this over at R/sex, and well, I can relate:

http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/kr5k8/22_year_old_male_never_kissed_anyone_before_last/

My issue isn't that exactly, but is/was similar enough.

I know I'm way too in my head with alot of this stuff, cause I just always have been. It's not like I'm walking around nervous or anxious, but mentally I am nervous,anxious etc. I feel I should be further ahead with this sort of thing and have had it handled by now, as so many others seem to have. I mean, no wonder I've been stuck in this sort of thing.