I was reading Mark Manson's Models and I am tending towards his strategy of qualifying women, and being "okay" with honesty and vulnerability being as way to qualify women. And thus have better and an easier time finding people to match with and have casual sex ans overall better life with better relationships with women.

And when speaking about vulnerability no not "boohoo my dad left me when I was young. Help me" sort of vulnerability...I don't think this is what he is advocating.

Obviously you'd need to show that you are stronger or don't care from that kind of thing to a girl.

But his idea of qualifying women. Seeing them as just incompatible if they are childish, manipulative etc is interesting in how it relates to TRP.

He uses an example of telling a girl he is about to have sex with that be has had a dry spell and might have some performance anxiety as an example of being honest, working. Basically he told the girl that and .... she was turned off but understanding and he said after a few days they got back together and had sex for over six months after that. Because... she was decent, he filtered out with that honesty and she was decent and passed.

A girl who would have laughed or shouted would not have been worth the PUA or TRP banter/shit test joking that is so often promoted in that situation. I guess it depends on the tone/ general response of a girl in that situation.

My question is this. If Mark Manson says qualify women. He's saved money, time and energy and has had a better time with women because of it.

Doesn't that mean the girls we are able to spin, keep on rotation are the type of girls who aren't interested or are unable to hold their ground on monogamy with a guy?

Basically, doesn't like attract like? Guy who spins plates attracts girls who do the same, the inverse?

Or at least weak girls who can't push for monogamy, exclusivity and such.

I mean us guys like virgins right? How can we get a virgin if we are pushing so hard, trying to unlock her chastity belt?

What if she was talented, smart, loved you dearly, and just wanted an exclusive relationship that included sex after marriage. On principle and practically.

How does TRP prepare for that kind of girl?