So, around the time when I was 18 I was a fat (240, 5'9) kid. I hated life and had no luck with women. Sometime around then I decided to change my ways. I started working out (Now 190, 5'11 with abs), got hot enough to the point I make girls nervous when I talk to them, got a good job, became more Alpha in a sense, never thought of it that way it just came. More fun, have fun, lead the way, people always want to talk to me, can't get em to stop. Yada yada.

But the problem is girls. I get interest from girls. They straight up tell me they want to fuck, have a crush on me, the usual stuff. But I just don't know how to make the move. I feel nervous talking to girls and so when they talk to me I keep it short and I end up coming off as a stuck up asshole (or so I'm told) even though I'm very nice imo.

What can I do to get past this point? I've fixed everything I hated about myself besides this. One problem is a lot of the girls that go after me are through work and I'm worried if I fuck it up they will talk and then I'm screwed from then on in that department.

Anyone else found a way to get over the shyness? Once I get to know a girl I can make them fall in love without trying. Its just the initial conversation, and then getting physical. The two things everyone seems to have problems with.

I have problems with touching since I've had some bad experiences in my life that lead me to sometimes crave it and other times be repulsed by it. What can I do to finally get some action? I've had a LTR that ended badly with a crazy girl (who was very attractive) and since then I'm worried to open up to a female again.