I went to my male friend's birthday party over the week with the full intentions on having an awesome time. I wasn't too sure how the field would look at the party so my primary focus was to celebrate his birthday and to catch up with friends. About an hour into the party, tons of attractive girls arrived looking damn good. Yes!

My focus admittedly switched to game mode. There were three girls in particular that caught my eye. Through out the night I was being attractive and displaying that I am a high value man. I had no approach anxiety. I was full of energy and engaging in convo with the three girls. We were having a great time.

I was doing a great job displaying my attractiveness to the girls. I was giving and receiving minor IOIs, such as smiles and interest in our convos. Also, I was giving very minor kino them, touches to the back and arms. All three girls were waiting for me to escalate the connection with major kino and IOIs, however they were well aware that I was connecting with all of them. I didn't want to jeopardize all three connections by choosing just one girl over the other.

The night was in decline and by that time one girl was being more aggressive, more minor IOIs and and trying to engage in more convo. The other two girls seemed to submit to the aggressive girl.

I decided to do one last round between the three girls. The attraction was still there but they all had to leave. Shit.

From the beginning, I decided to game on multiple girls instead of just focusing on just one. I built many weak sexual attraction instead of one strong sexual attraction.

Should have I been more aggressive trying to escalate strong sexual attraction with all three of them without the fear of it backfiring? Or should have I focused on just one girl?