How to find true friends (and love) in 45 minutes (Wired UK)

notlurkinganymoar · 2011-11-08T20:11:01+00:00

Awesome find.

"The effect is based not just on reciprocal self-disclosure, but on gradually escalating reciprocal self-disclosure. . . . we also tested an intense version of this with cross-sex couples - and the first ones we tested fell in love and got married. And as of last year, when I last had contact with them, they were still together."

puaCurveBall · 2011-11-08T20:38:19+00:00

A lot can be learned from studying those questions, boiling them down and picking your favorites. Feel free to get more sexual as well, remember those questions were generic enough for same sex pairings and those already in relationships....

humanwire · 2011-11-09T04:10:50+00:00

I'm saving the questions in the article and pulling them out on dates in the future. Thanks for posting!

_the_boss · 2011-11-09T06:16:29+00:00

I like these because they don't apply specifically to pick-up, but rather to generally being a great conversationalist. Does anybody have more links like this?

Title	How to find true friends (and love) in 45 minutes (Wired UK)
Author	sedditsh
Upvotes	26
Comments	8
Date	November 8, 2011 5:54 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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