Things are kind of in a fuzzy stage right now. We hang out and talk and get dinner together a lot, but both of us are really busy and usually that's the end of it. She's coming over tonight to drop off a text-book and I'd like her to stay a bit and see what happens. Our kino usually gets as far as hugs and maybe a few brushes on the arm here and there. We have a really good thing going and I don't want to escalate and ruin it, but I'd also like to be friends with benefits and think this might be a good time to get in that zone. You guys have some advice?