How do you prevent girls from getting too clingy/emotionally attached after sleeping with them?

TheGamble · 2011-12-14T05:23:50+00:00

Be more apparent in your intentions, man. Make it aware that your attraction is carnal if that's all it is. Generally the ladies that I'm not interested in establishing feelings for will get this idea anyways, just because we aren't that into eachother. I go for the "Look, I don't think we'd work out, but we've been chilling all night, I'm sexy, you're sexy, we're attracted to eachother - Come on, let's go knock your headboard off the rails." Is this going to disqualify you a little? Yeah. Some girls just won't do it.

There's a fine line between anti-slut-defense and you leading them on. You have to be careful, otherwise you can convey the message that you want more than you do. Hell, nowadays I'll use body language and cues in my language to get it across, and if I'm in the bedroom but still think she might not understand, I'll stop cold and just tell her flat out: "Don't get attached."

I look at it like - I get laid plenty. If this burns any bridges? Fuck it, go back to the scene, open another set. I just personally refuse to be the guy that ladies tell their friends about: "Oh, he led me on, used me for sex, and kicked me to the curb, fuck him."

You do you, go out and have fun. Do what you need to. Reflect as needed, adjust fire. This is about being young and having fun, not wrecking lives.

Edit: Also, your username.. essendoubleop, Snoop Dogg reference?

puaCurveBall · 2011-12-14T16:49:29+00:00

DQ yourself as BF material ahead of time, before sex. Let them understand what they are getting when they choose to sleep with you.

essendoubleop · 2011-12-14T04:53:52+00:00

I wish I had this problem.

xiko · 2011-12-15T20:57:23+00:00

Don't play around with others in front of them at least. When she tries to get close etc you can say you two had something that was very good, a good experience and that you simply can't stay with one person.

Don't neglect the thing you had but point it out it was a one thing only that can happen again but no strings attached as it was good.

durrrrrrrrrr · 2011-12-14T10:54:08+00:00

You can only go so far in this regard. It's called biology.

2011-12-14T21:10:50+00:00

Take them out and use them as proof to get other girls.

They will get the idea.

Twinkified777 · 2011-12-14T06:13:50+00:00

Maybe you should have them sign a No Strings Attached Contract

essendoubleop · 2011-12-14T06:19:20+00:00

How attached do you guys think these girls get after just a one-nighter? I've never been able to tell, for the most part. I've had one or two try to do dating. Most just fall off the face of the earth, which is generally the desired result.

It's just hard to believe anyone being that upset because some random guy they fucked doesn't want to go out on a date with them or whatever. But who knows.

Title	How do you prevent girls from getting too clingy/emotionally attached after sleeping with them?
Author	essendoubleop
Upvotes	3
Comments	24
Date	December 14, 2011 4:28 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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