Haven't been out in a while since I had this "sort of" relationship thing going with this girl for the past 6 months. We decided to end things 2 weeks ago and I've sort of chilled since then, until I realized how I was starting to miss sex, so I decided to get back on the saddle. I'm not a PUA, I'm not a Brad Pitt look alike (average at best), Just your regular 5'10" black guy. I am attracted to pretty much any woman who looks good and has charisma. I could care less about hair color, race, age etc. but the girl has to be intelligent. I never did bad before, but I never really pulled a row of birds either. But it was time to get back in the game.

Anyway back to the FR. Decided to go out last night and go HAM. I have a ritual now, have 2 drinks, get to the karaoke/lounge bar at 8:30, then go to a semi packed bar at around 10:30 and finally a real dance bar at around 11:45pm. I like space, and ability to speak to these women. My game is in what I say and how I say them...since like i said, I'm not the guy who stands and ladies start winking at. I work hard for all the panties that drop next to my bed. So those moments are even more special. Started at this karaoke spot at around 830, pretty chill, babes dancing some singing etc. HB7.5 (brown hair, but her ass really makes her an HB8.5) was right in front of me and my two boys. She was in a group of 8 girls, all drinking and having in-group convos. Hard to step in, logistics weren't adding up. We made eye contact twice, on each occasion, she looked away, it wasn't an invitation nor was it a fuck off either. The DJ announced "Someone tell amanda to shave her landing strip", the girls especially laughed loud, so I imagined amanda was one of them and they had put the DJ up to saying that for her bday as a joke. Anyway 20mins later they all shaped to leave, I stepped out toward the exit stairs ahead of them, waited, pulled her out from the middle of the pack and asked "who is Amanda", and that was my opener...I like situational openers. Always works. Chatted about 5mins, all her friends left, eventually she invited me and my friends back to another bar they were going.

Went to the next spot, opened 2 sets, the first was a glorious set: HB9, HB9.5 foreign girls. Nothing serious came of this, but got two numbers...but i hate numbers at bars man, too many flakes, so I don't ever get excited about getting digits anymore.

Moved to the next spot around 11:30, lots of babes! Got a patron margarita, saw a two seriously hot blondes dancing alone, that was enough of an invite for me, I steal in "Have you guys seen coming to america? you know how prince akeem came to sow his royal oats?...me too. it's my last night of freedom, what should I do around this part of the city", they laugh and invite me in (with their body language). I make jokes, tease my target who was obviously into me (mainly for my jokes and how witty I am). She's HB8. She mistakenly spills her drink on her dress, i call her out on it and tease her for being nervous around me, she starts trying to convince me otherwise, I don't buy it, I give attention to her friend instead. She gets jealous. I hug and eject...for now, still early.

Strolling toward the bar, this hot brunette walks in black high heels, black tights, short black skirt and an highlighting greenish top, damn she looked good. We'll call her HB8, She strolls in with two friends, logistics were in my favor, the two friends were about 2 steps ahead of her, I cut into the space, grab her and ask why she was walking into a bar alone? she laughed and said "no, those are my fri..." I cut her off "I know, I just needed a reason to talk to you. You look really pretty, if I let you walk away, I'll kick myself all night". She buys it, We chat for 30secs, and I bounce her to the bar area, we chat for two more minutes, she's telling me about how she traveled to spain in the fall... I cut her off "I'm sorry, i haven't heard anything you said in the last 10 secs, your lips are distracting", she smile, "thanks". I ask if she's a good kisser, she said she thinks she is...I motion to find out, she obliges. Yea we pretty much tongue fucked for the next 30 mins. I bounce her to another spot in the bar (I like moving babes around, keeps the excitement up and subconsciously makes her feel like she isn't bored). We chat a while longer, and at this point I had put in serious work building attraction and making her feel very comfortable. She started initiating the kisses, my hands all over her body, and i mean under her dress on her ass type stuff.

It was still around 12:30 at this time, early to bounce but i got the sense she'll be down for the smash, I tell her "I want to have sex with you" (i like being straight up, but ONLY after i've built attraction and comfort). She agrees and says she feels the same, I grab her and lead her out...all the while kissing seriously. Anyway, we get to the car and she changes her mind. "oh i've only been with one guy", "oh i think we should know each other first", "ugh my friends would be so worried, we just got to the bar" blah blah. My attempts at killing LMR failed so I walked her back to the bar.

(How i think i failed: Maybe i should have spent some more time building comfort, giving her some push-pull, building more DHV. I think i tried to move her home too early, I made out with her 2mins into the convo, and kept kissing, i should have taken that luxury away. Maybe i should have also danced with her and keep her to myself at the bar till the place closed. I dunno, maybe other things I did screwed me over but oh well. Lesson learned)

I get her back to the bar, we talk for another two mins, leave her with her friends and took her number. I found my boys again, one talking to an HB6.5, the other just chilling. We talk about my misfortune, they laugh. Then I see HB8 (coming to america opener, whom i teased for being nervous around me) from earlier, i go in. "It's you again, they haven't kicked you out yet?" she laughs, grabs me and starts grinding on me super hard. We make out for another 10-15mins while dancing. Booked her. Opened a few more sets and called it a night.

Wasn't the best of nights, wasn't the worst either. Would have liked to overcome that LMR, but shit, you lose sometimes in this game. Tonight, I rinse and repeat.