I feel there is a group of us that can use some diagnosing, including myself. I'm talking about the guys that have been on Seddit for 4-5+ months, know all the material, but still no results. I've been on Seddit since May, and while I have changed A LOT, as a lot of people have told me, I still haven't fclosed. However since I started I had dates, had my first make out, had a girl over at my place, seduced a few women, and a lot of crazy experiences.. but still.. no fclose..

So, if you're like me, and have been on Seddit for a while, but not getting the results you want, post here and maybe some of the more experienced members on here will read this and try to find out what's wrong with us.


As for my personal issues:

I have some sort of internal fear that's preventing me from fclosing. My momentum has died big time, and I feel like I'm more needy, and starting all over again. In August I had 80+ num closes, I was an approaching machine, and had a few day2s, in September I had my first real kclose, I had a shitty one in August that didn't really count. In October I did some ballsy things like opening physically, without saying anything and using the apocalypse opener. In November, I didn't do anything because I was sick. Now in December, I had only one date, I have AA and feel like I'm starting all over again. I felt like I wasted a lot of time doing unnecessary things between September and November, and now I'm trying to get back to the basics.

I don't like using routines because it's not "me", I don't like doing the entertainer thing with the palm reading, I don't really tease, and I'm mainly good at building comfort. Even now though, I feel like my interactions are somewhat dull. I feel that I'm not that excited about women anymore, the novelty effect of pick up has faded. When I first started out I was a lot more excited to meet women because I didn't know anything, but after 1000 approaches, my excitement is nearly gone, it's as if I'm expecting the girl to be rude, shallow, or stuck up. Rarely do I meet a girl that's down to earth and lady like, but when I do, I get excited for a few hours. How can I spark up that excitement again so that I approach more?

My goals right now is to have more kcloses and day2s, I'd like to get to at least 10 of each. Help me out fellas.