This FR is about my experience with the second girl I met on OKC (I met the first one about a month ago and got a BJ plus free lunch at McDonald's) and I'm sharing it because everything just happened so fast! I'm also sharing it because I was already thinking of dropping my OKC profile completely when...

About three days ago, a girl (HB7) I messaged on OKCupid responded to a canned opener (which is a solid one) that I had sent a few days earlier. Her response lead to me saying that we should hang out some time. She asked me, "How would I know when that would be when I'm not always online?" I told her to give me her number. She did. And we were texting on the night of the same day.

After the first few text messages, I could tell that she was really interested in meeting up with me. So I told her that we should meet up for breakfast at 7:30 in the morning the next day (I work during the graveyard shift), or if she's not available then we can meet up in the afternoon before I go to work. Her response: "Why don't we do both? :)"

Well, we met up, we had breakfast, chatted for a bit, and without even really talking about it, we checked in to a hotel and had 3 hours of horny fucking.

The first lesson that I learned from this experience is: it pays off to put in the effort to fill out your profile information. I answered a total of 100 questions on OKC to improve my matches and all that. I think this is the biggest reason why the girl I met seemed to be really into me right from the start. My profile has 750 words on it. Now, this doesn't mean that you should also wax poetic about yourself on your OKC profile. Just make it concise and mildly entertaining and it'll work for you.

Second lesson: being assertive works. If I'd acted like a pussy upon meeting this girl from OKC, our meetup probably wouldn't have resulted in an F-close. But I was always leading during the time that we spent together and a bit after we had breakfast, I just went and asked her if she wanted to check in to a nearby hotel. She didn't say yes, but I didn't hear her saying a no either. So I kept on walking and leading her to the place until we both went in the door, got on the elevator, and I got on the fast track to heaven.

Third lesson: It's perfectly OK to set personal boundaries. If you're not ready for a relationship, say so. I did, and even my OKC profile has that information. So we both went in knowing that I wouldn't be dating her exclusively, and that she can't "fall" too easily or she'll just ending up getting hurt.

Before parting ways, the girl I met expressed annoyance and said that I shouldn't try to contact her anymore because she just wants to move forward. But in reality, she was feeling twisted by the fact that she felt a connection when she was with me (we got connected all right, with my cock in between her legs;)) but she can't call me her boyfriend. She's really frustrated by this fact, but IDGAF, and we're still okay.

Side note: Personally, I like to think that I have somewhat good game on OKC. My profile is great, I have awesome pictures on there, and the women I send messages to always respond positively (thanks to my very effective opener). It's just that I think the women from where I'm from aren't as inclined towards this whole "online dating" thing so I'm not getting as much success as I feel like I should be. Anyway, I'm thinking of dropping my OKC profile completely since I'd like to work on my real-life game instead. Not that I completely rely on OKC to get dates or get laid, but real-life game seems to be much more closer to the truth, if you get what I'm saying.