How do you transition from opening to DHV?

sukka113 · 2012-01-19T10:07:25+00:00

don't bother yourself with MM, open a girl 'hi, im (insert name, smile), make statements and talk about both of your interests. No need to make up stories like a circus clown.

revbobdobbs · 2012-01-19T11:53:02+00:00

Fuck DHV's.

You don't have to hard sell a lamborghini. You are a cool guy, right? Let her find that out. If she earns it.

MM was created by very systematic thinkers. Complete geeks who overthink things. That's cool - I'm one of those guys too.... but...

It seems to have been created for use in LA nightclubs, on insecure girls who artificially overvalue themselves.

Let the DHV's come naturally in the conversation. In fact, it might even become hard to downplay them. Which you might have to end up doing when you talk to her more naturally.

You walking up to her is a DHV. Your mere presence is a DHV. You think highly enough of yourself that you are putting yourself out there, right.

Storytime: I was out today with a wing. He's an awesome guy. We do a few sets together. I actually hadn't hung out with him for a few years. Every set I see him do, he overplays. I guess you'd call it "dancing monkey". The girl is entertained. But man, from a distance he just looks like he is trying to impress her.

Just be cool. That's all. Just be a cool guy talking to a girl. Attraction already exists, because you are a guy and she is a girl.

At some point we end up talking together, and I mention this to him. I didn't want to sound like I was judging, because I wasn't. His game is good. He gets girls. We eventually part ways.

I get a text from him an hour later, saying that he'd picked up a girl with a super low-energy opener and interaction.

Moral of the story: don't bother DHV'ing.

2012-01-19T15:28:53+00:00

If you're a cool guy, then everything you do is a DHV, since you're a cool guy. You can't demonstrate higher value by going, "hey, what do you think of all this value of I'm demonstrating?", or, "time to use my DHV routine", because that's essentially seeking validation.

Becoming the cool, likable guy takes practice. Yes, very frustrating advice, but you already have a library of information in the sidebar and whatnot. You will only be smooth and seamless through practice; you don't become a pimp like Lil' Wayne overnight.

xx6xx12 · 2012-01-19T19:28:16+00:00

For some reason when people learn game they forget basic social skills, "transition" is more like small talk, if you opened a few sets you would have quickly learned this. If you absolutely can't think on your feet use the line below.

go to transition line for a group is "how do you guys know eachother"

Level_75_Zapdos · 2012-01-19T09:35:39+00:00

Get a story/DHV idea in your head, then the next thing they say (no matter what it is), respond, "Speaking of [blank], [insert DHV/story here]."

for teh lulz

Seduceher · 2012-01-19T17:18:10+00:00

Don't mention you have High Value, just IMPLY. I usually wear my Ferrari hat and shirt and I ordered some Ferrari pants they should be in soon. It implies that I drive many ferraris, when in reality I drive a Cavalier.

Title	How do you transition from opening to DHV?
Author	coolymccool
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	January 19, 2012 7:04 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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