Hi seddit. First of all, been learning this for about 3 months now and blown away by how amazing this community is. I'm usually at nightclubs and loud bars and I feel a lot more comfortable doing cold approaches. It's hit and miss but I am able to get girls smiling/laughing through projecting my "having fun/don't give a fuck" attitude. Sometimes, I can pull a girl to dance with me. I think I'm escalating the kino sorta well and showing that I am interested in her.

The problem comes 5-10min into the interaction. Either she loses interest or I get uncomfortable because I don't know how to proceed with the interaction. I am not quite sure what to do here. Things I've tried but failed pretty badly is escalating the kino even more and doing push-pull Is this where banter/rapport comes in? How do I take her interest to the next level?

Also, I don't want to come off as a clingy dude. Will ending the interaction after 5-10min and coming back later be better? Or should I grind it out and try to keep the interaction going?

I'm not sure if this will get replies but thanks in advance. Seddit is the best thing that happened to me in 2011! You guys are awesome.