How do you convince a girl to break up with her boyfriend without sounding like a scumbag?

Anates · 2012-01-21T08:02:47+00:00

Don't be that guy.

perpetualday · 2012-01-21T08:27:30+00:00

This would kind of make you a scumbag, just keep being awesome and she may someday make this decision on her own. If not, don't get stuck on one girl, it's silly.

documents1856 · 2012-01-21T11:24:53+00:00

Been down that road, my response of its now worth it may not sink in, but seriously dude there is a lot of easy catches that may stick around longer than her that would be worth looking else where. The trust issues you'll face won't make it enjoyable, well maybe except for the sex but its not worth it in the end

2012-01-21T08:41:05+00:00

Learn how to demonstrate higher value, insulting others never makes you look better than them.

DrLio · 2012-01-21T11:36:19+00:00

It's her choice not yours. You can only be there and she will take you if she wants... but don't be that guy...

2012-01-21T13:45:51+00:00

You don't.

2012-01-21T14:56:24+00:00

why would you want her to break with her bf? she is leaving in may.

bolxrex · 2012-01-21T19:07:43+00:00

This is really her problem and her decision. The only way you can convince a woman to leave someone she is already with is by being a better man, and offering her more fun, security, comfort, and ultimately love. You can only lead down the path of a decision but you can not make that decision for her.

Your job is to ignore the fact that there is anyone else in either of your lives when you are spending time with her. Make her treasure the time she spends with you above all else and she will make that decision on her own.

If you keep fretting over it, and making your discomfort known.. you will eventually lose her. These are beta/omega traits, no reason to exhibit them. Deal with your feelings on your own, toughen up. Be the most awesome man you can be and you won't have to convince her of a damn thing.

soaringquails · 2012-01-21T11:52:13+00:00

If she'll do it to him, she'll do it to you, bro.

2012-01-22T05:54:19+00:00

lol... you can't find anyone else you'd rather fuck? you have to have this foreign exchange student? Is she really that perfect? She's probably no more special than anyone else you've met, and your efforts are better spent going after other women.

FromundaCheezeWhiz · 2012-01-30T07:44:30+00:00

Dude, just stick it in when she's sleeping

Title	How do you convince a girl to break up with her boyfriend without sounding like a scumbag?
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Date	January 21, 2012 7:39 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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