How do you make a comeback after being in a long relationship?

Marsupian · 2012-03-02T12:31:45+00:00

I'd say forget about tricks and start with your inner game. Become awesome and alpha as fuck and start approaching again.

Best advice I got:

Work out
Take care of yourself (stay healthy/clean/fit etc.)
Smile, always smile (without looking like a fool)
Have fun
Interact with people because you enjoy it and not because you want something from them, enjoy the game.
Find your passions and be passionate about them.
Define yourself (values, interests, passions, principles etc.)
Don't depend on others to feel good or be happy. Always be confident that you can enjoy yourself. You don't need others for entertainment or approval.
Approach often and not just hot chicks you want to pick up.
Bring your game everywhere, don't just be alpha when picking up girls, always be alpha. You need to be the fucking prize not just when picking up girls but always.

There is probably more but all this stuff is in the sidebar anyway so best to just check that out.

mileshigh_23 · 2012-03-02T06:08:55+00:00

Find local wings/lair through the forums. Also check out Simple Pickup content on youtube. It's super intuitive and doesn't over complicate PUA. And it works. So my advice is:

*Find wings that will support you and you can roll with.

*Get out in the field and hit on/date a lot of girls. After my last break up, it was killer getting over my ex, but the more girls I saw, the less I remembered her.

*Find a technique that works for you.

WiteOut · 2012-03-02T19:26:42+00:00

I got out of a relationship 6 months ago and now I'm on the top of my game. I set goals for myself. I knew that I wanted to start making more friends that were women and I wanted to live the single life. I read "The Game" (obviously) which helped me understand women and build up confidence. I took initiative, I started going into forums like (pick-up-artist-forum.com) which has all the answers to all of our questions. I also began coming to this forum and learning much from other sedditors. The absolute most important part of this entire process is building your own self esteem and confidence.

I had a random girl the other day come up to me and tell me "you slouch a lot, stand straight, girls like tall guys" and walked away. The way you stand portrays your confidence, and women can pick up very quickly.

The only way your going to make a change is if you really want it. If you need advice you can always message me and I will do my best to help. I know what it's like because I've been in your situation before.

heckz · 2012-03-03T02:33:27+00:00

work out, go out it will comeback with practice.

Title	How do you make a comeback after being in a long relationship?
Author	shuritsen
Upvotes	6
Comments	9
Date	March 2, 2012 4:21 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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