Hey sedditors,

So I got hit up by this girl last night to go grab drinks. I'd been trying to meet up with her for a while but she had had work. Anyway, we had a pretty good time, learned a lot about each other, and I tried kino whenever possible. She ended up straight-up paying for everything, which was insane (she paid while I was in the bathroom!). At any rate, I'll definitely be seeing her again if only to get her back.

Anyway, at the end of the date I walked her home and kissed her. She came back and grabbed my face and kissed me, which is quickly becoming my favorite feeling in the world haha. I've been doing NoFap and so I am super turned on and so I ask if I can come inside. She makes an excuse about her house being messy, and I said I didn't mind. She said that she was sorry but it's super dirty and I immediately said that was fine and said goodnight (I wanted to be respectful).

question

How can I turn situations like this into an f-close? I don't want to do anything the girl doesn't want to do. I just want to make them comfortable with the idea of fucking I guess. This wasn't strictly a date, it was a spur of the moment thing so that's why I went for it - wanted to see what would happen if I was direct. But is that a bad way to say it? Should you do something or frame the whole encounter differently?

Thanks!