Meeting with girl who friendzoned me in high school

AbdulCapon · 2018-09-15T23:06:24+00:00

Lol dude, you going to tell her that you want to be more than friends after 2 years. That's one bad case of oneitis right there.

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bosshawg502 · 2018-09-16T01:00:53+00:00

Just act like high school never happened and start over. Treat her like a brand new plate. If she starts wanting to bring up the past etc change subject or distract her. You definitely don't want her to start remembering why she rejected you etc because she might default back to the same thing. You want to give her a whole new view of you and escalate escalate escalate. Make sure she knows you aren't there to be friends by your body language, kino etc. it will help if a little bit of alcohol is involved to help loosen her (and you) up some and let things happen.

untitled1 · 2018-09-16T01:02:24+00:00

Act like a normal human being.

If she hit you up out of the blue after two years and after seeing that you got jacked, she probably wants to fuck. Fuck her.

Be fun, physical, sexual, and escalate.

Should I straight up tell her I dont want to see her again unless its more than friends?

No, women need plausible deniability. That's why they operate indirectly. If you say anything that directly implies, "I'm only here to fuck you," she will switch into anti-slut mode. Just be normal and flirty and escalate.

If she starts going on about her problems and starts using you like an emotional tampon, then you need to shut it down. Act cocky. Don't give a fuck. Be willing to walk away. If you start acting needy and thirsty, you'll put yourself back in the friendzone and it will be your fault.

wanker7171 · 2018-09-15T23:08:45+00:00

I got friend zoned by this girl

The friend zone does not exist. It is a term used by beta guys who have oneitis for a girl and the girl is not attracted to them. If I were you I’d blow her off

Johnnadawearsglasses · 2018-09-16T01:19:33+00:00

Go out with her. Escalate appropriately. If she isn’t in to it, end the night and never see her again. Don’t overthink it.

sebastian_ramirez05 · 2018-09-16T00:38:01+00:00

Go ahead and see what happens, if you don’t get anything from her then leave and check out any of your other plates. That’s all I can say because I had the same problem with two girls from high school that saw me walking from and out of the gym. One met up with me we chatted and ended up getting bj but wanted sex afterwards, I told her no because she’s been around the block and back in high school and she left crying. While the other girl walked up to me while I was leaving gym and felt my new body because I was a fucking chubby monkey nerd in high school and she didn’t expect the change in me and all of sudden she gives me that smirk and goes down to feel my legs, but in my mind I was like fuck yes, so I pulled her in closer and kissed her she went ballistic and said we’re only friends. I walked away from her to my car and she followed and I’m silent the whole time because now I’ve got fucking blue balls she got me all riled up, as soon as I get back in the car without closing the door yet she goes can you please hug me goodbye, I then in turn turn my body towards her pushing her away from the door and close the door. And I leave while I’m leaving I check my rear view mirror and I see her crying staring at my car. The first girl still calls me now and then asking why I rejected her, while the second girl can’t see me or even think of me in public without crying hysterically ( A couple of her friends I fucked talk about me in a nonchalant way to her and told me that’s she’s been crying about me, it’s funny because they asked her what happened she tell the story truthfully surprisingly about me walking away from her and her friends would go to her and comfort her, they also told me that she saw a guy that looked like me she ran up to this random guy crying and slaps him then hugs him and kisses him saying that she missed me and she looked up it wasn’t me).

FieldLine · 2018-09-16T04:30:13+00:00

Don't tell her anything. Let your actions speak towards your intentions.

Toxik6 · 2018-09-16T10:59:35+00:00

Move on. Don’t even bother seeing her.

imtheoneimmortal · 2018-09-16T11:09:45+00:00

Sorry now my friendlist is full

RedHoodhandles · 2018-09-16T11:11:30+00:00

Don't meet her. It is just a waste of time. Best case scenario is that she feels validated because she was able to friendzone a guy like you.

ppanthero · 2018-09-16T11:53:57+00:00

Actually you can go in there without worries. If it doesn't work - well, nothing lost. Test your new learned stuuf, be bold and smash her.

spider514 · 2018-09-16T03:04:02+00:00

Why would you give more time than you already did to someone who wouldn't even consider you an option? Have some self respect and blow her off mate. I had a recent encounter w an old oneitis of mine and the whole time she tried to put me into her frame of being a little beta bitch. It was honestly funny watching her try but part of me realized that she was only behaving this way because I USED TO ALLOW IT. This realization really hit me and I then realized that this chick who i would always make excuses as to why she treated me like crap was actually a product of my own doing. The way you carry yourself is usually mirrored in how a woman treats you. If you act like a beta then of course you'll get friendzoned, because your actions demonstrate to her that you lack any worth and so she will ascribe worth onto you as she sees fit in this case: a beta chump that she can use to her wim to serve her. Why give this chick your dick on a silver platter when really to her your still being her slave, a slave that she can derive pleasure from for a night.

Title	Meeting with girl who friendzoned me in high school
Author	Jason_Grace12
Upvotes	16
Comments	50
Date	September 15, 2018 11:01 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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