Oh hey seddit, girl here. How do /I/ seduce men?

dakru · 2012-04-08T01:07:18+00:00

Someone posted a summary of the differences of attracting men and women (and the mistakes that men and women make), which seems rather accurate to me:

http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/rh1ru/so_do_men_like_when_girls_are_hard_to_get_or_when/c45s3p8

The biggest mistake men and women both make is to assume what is attractive to them is also attractive to the opposite sex.

Guys who don't know how to attract women will become super nice, forthcoming, available, and appreciative. This is doing what they would like, but women don't respond to it. They see it as weakness, lose respect for him, and welcome to the friendzone.

Girls who don't know how to attract men will become aloof, hard to get, resistant, and coy. This is doing what they would like, but men don't respond to it. They see it as indifference, and move on to someone who appreciates them.

Women want to be treated nice by someone awesome. Men want to be treated awesome by someone nice.

2012-04-07T23:44:44+00:00

Stay simple and look happy :)

the1npc · 2012-04-08T01:08:06+00:00

kino, forwardness

rayquaza5000 · 2012-04-08T13:07:15+00:00

Be forward.

Guys don't understand any of your shit, just initiate everything. initiate eye contact, initiate kino, initiate sex.

petco34 · 2012-04-08T01:15:38+00:00

Think about how you judge a man's attractiveness. First comes his confidence, then personality, and then physical features (Really over generalizing here). Now, just reverse the order, and voila, you have what makes a woman attractive to a man.

dablac · 2012-04-07T23:33:35+00:00

You can basically just use the same techniques as guys as far as inner game and approaching, which is all on the sidebar.

Luckily for you, men are much easier to seduce then women, so in all likelihood that's all you'll need.

sithyiscool · 2012-04-08T00:16:04+00:00

The same seduction tactics can be applied to men as well. Kino and displaying your interest to him is a lot of of it (lets face it, many men are clueless about when a girl is into him). If you can recognize when a man is attracted to you, and help push him along the attraction, that will do wonders.

2012-04-08T08:07:40+00:00

Here's one blog that deals with this very issue: http://www.hookingupsmart.com/

SpiderFan · 2012-04-08T11:36:36+00:00

Most of the seddit stuff, but there are areas where we wouldn't be able to help you. Women have to emphasize more on screening men, finding out which ones won't go psyco, clingy, etc.

Then after they do find a quality guy, he probably has a lot of options. Some of those guys may just go for the hotter girl. Others may look for other stuff. Take improv to help you bring out your humor and lose yourself in the moment.

imjustneggingyou · 2012-04-08T21:29:36+00:00

Do you want to to have sex with one particular person?

I would then give you the same advice I would give to a guy:

Stop being a woman.

Are you trying to just have sex with anyone who looks halfway decent?

Go to a bar, don't fight too hard

Do you want to find a guy who has a lot of money/status?

Hope you won the genetic lottery. If it hasn't happened yet, it probably won't happen.

Do you want to have a rich and fun romantic life, full of exciting adventures to tell your friends who will respect you for your sexual exploits?

You can't have one. Men are respected proportionately to how many people they've slept with, women are respected inversely. No one will validate you because of what sex you've had. You will just slowly lose value in their eyes.

True story

Title	Oh hey seddit, girl here. How do /I/ seduce men?
Author	Dr_Reaffirmer
Upvotes	10
Comments	13
Date	April 7, 2012 11:05 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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