Hi guys

I have a weird situation. Firstly, I don't sarge a lot (priorities at the moment) -- but from my limited experience, I have experienced some weird shit twice over the past 6 months.

In both cases, met a girl, went out on a day 2. Then, we make out at the bar and seems like she is having fun. She asks at closing time what the plan is and I suggest we go to my place. She agrees. We walk to my place, heavy kino on the way, make outs on the way. We reach home, get something to eat. I put on the TV to play some random video. Then I go in for more kino, and under the shirt fooling around.

At this point, after a few minutes of this, the girl just gets up and says "im not ready for this" and starts walking to the door. I don't try to do anything at this point and offer to walk her home or something. She says she will get together some other time. And poof - gone. No further contact.

I am getting better at game, but this seems to be a weird sticking point. How does the girl loose attraction so quickly? In the middle of a makeout session? Am I being too passive? Would a better thing have been to caveman as soon as she enters the apartment to keep escalating?

Am I that bad that I can't maintain attraction for long enough to close a girl who is already partially topless in my own apartment?? Should "always be seducing" be the motto for the night with no breaks?

Thanks guys