I'm a virgin, but I don't act like one, so should I even care that much?

voxpupil · 2012-05-02T02:22:00+00:00

Just don't rape anyone.

TITANIUM_DICK_LADDER · 2012-05-02T01:04:15+00:00

don't force it...it'll happen

HelloHiHello · 2012-05-02T05:57:57+00:00

This is EXACTLY me three months ago.

Social, outgoing, could talk to random girls on the street like no one else in my social group could. But was still a virgin at 20, not unlike yourself.

The truth is, you shouldn't care. After you have sex, you'll realize everything you worried about is false and sex isn't a big deal.

That being said, you WILL most likely care until you go out and have sex. That's what I recommend. Even though sex is just sex, if you're anything like me, after you have sex it'll feel like a weight off your shoulders. Cause you're not a virgin anymore!

I recommend telling the girl you're a virgin. Here was the problem with me, and I imagine it may be similar for you: since I was so social and capable of talking to basically anyone with confidence, the girl I had sex with admitted that when she first met me, she thought I was the kind of guy that "just fools around with anyone whenever he feels like it."

Couldn't be further from the truth, LOL!

With that being said, I wish I had told her I was a virgin earlier – before she was on top of me and I was feeling anxious as all fuck. So I recommend meeting a girl that's down to fuck, putting your standards aside (I used to say I had standards, but I was just nervous about sex – you're probably different ;P ) and losing your virginity.

Then it's time to have some real fun with your social life. ;)

Level_75_Zapdos · 2012-05-02T01:45:07+00:00

Sex is easy. If fat, stupid, backwards rednecks (not that there's anything wrong with that) can do it, so can you. Don't even acknowledge the fact that you are currently a virgin. It doesn't fucking matter because sex is so easy.

2012-05-02T05:44:17+00:00

Go with the flow man. It will happen when it happens. If you want it to happen then it will. You will know when you're ready.

Rhoop · 2012-05-02T09:45:09+00:00

Do you care? Do you want sex? If yes, than you should probably take steps to actually go for it :) If thats not what you want, then dont be bothered. Its as simple as that.

Marro78 · 2012-05-04T09:11:49+00:00

Have sex to have sex, not to lose your virginity. Go with the flow, just not during THE flow...no need to earn your red wings on the first time out.

iforgottenmyname · 2012-05-02T02:33:05+00:00

No dude, stay true. Don't change for anything unless you are ready for your whole life to change. Sex is a new step for anyone's life. The thing is, if it is done wrong (most referring to out of wed-lock) then it is a step down rather than a step up. It can be great, remember that.

Title	I'm a virgin, but I don't act like one, so should I even care that much?
Author	throwawayaccreddit
Upvotes	4
Comments	13
Date	May 2, 2012 1:01 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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