I seem to only be attracting older women. Can't keep a girl my age interested. Any theories?

Gaius_Octavius · 2012-05-06T17:09:45+00:00

"Some context -- I have most of my success when I build deep rapport and have long, intelligent, and meaningful conversations. The silliness, quick, and flashy isn't really my style. I don't think I'd be congruent if I went with that."

This is why. Work on being high energy, funny and exciting.

Supajin · 2012-05-06T17:09:12+00:00

Better to attract women than to not attract women at all...

Attila_TheHipster · 2012-05-06T20:52:10+00:00

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legendofpasta · 2012-05-06T18:49:05+00:00

Go to /r/malefashionadvice for advice on making your beard trim and stylish. I maintain a nice scruff, and detail it every few days. Do whatever works for you, but if you look a lot older than you are, you might have difficulty trying to get girls who like the zac efron look

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-05-06T19:01:49+00:00

Go with your strengths.

OpenMarriagePUA · 2012-05-06T19:21:21+00:00

Is it a problem?

I'm betting you seem slightly arrogant or something to the younger girls. Maybe you think they can't handle a deep conversation and it shows?

Im 33, and have had alot of very deep convo's with girls around 19-20. Age doesn't really matter, imho.

2012-05-07T03:28:52+00:00

Older women are great. Much more straightforward. I'm the same way. They're more mature on average, and that's my strength at attracting.

Same struggle, but not a bad problem to have by no means.

megaflyman · 2012-05-07T17:12:34+00:00

I have the opposite problem. Only younger girls seem to be interested in me. I'm 20 years old. Having girls in the 16 or 17 range be the ones showing interest is getting annoying. For a while I had a 15 year old girl that would not leave me alone. I suppose in a few years this kinda thing may be considered a blessing but right now its trouble. I really have no interest in dating some one who is not at least 18.

Nattfrosten · 2012-05-06T20:00:29+00:00

What is the problem, again?

Leelluu · 2012-05-06T20:25:50+00:00

It sounds like you're happy with the older women, so why fix something that isn't broken?

Title	I seem to only be attracting older women. Can't keep a girl my age interested. Any theories?
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Date	May 6, 2012 4:50 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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