Your favourite ways to get a girl to sleep with you, when she's said she'll only have sex within a relationship...?

puaCurveBall · 2012-05-14T19:21:08+00:00

You don't "get" a girl to sleep with you, you setup a situation where it is in her own best interest to sleep with you.

That doesn't happen for every girl.

Basically, you present the best possible case for why sex outside relationships is great, then ramp up her attraction and arousal.

Figure out why she should sleep with you, then tell her.

vellyr · 2012-05-15T02:31:54+00:00

You don't. You respect her decision and next her.

rnjbond · 2012-05-14T20:17:08+00:00

Oh, convince her we're dating, bang her, then break up with her right after.

(please don't do this, it's terrible advice)

Aeterne · 2012-05-15T03:35:58+00:00

I'll echo what is said elsewhere here: this is why this subreddit gets a bad place.

There's no girl there's worth deconstructing fundamental beliefs, ethics and moral values, leaving her bereft of that just so you can seize her in a night of copulation as some sort of triumph.

There are plenty of other girls that are open and susceptible to sex outside of a relationship, and unless there are extraordinary circumstances at play, you should pursue them instead.

2012-05-14T23:38:46+00:00

People like you give this subreddit a bad name.

2012-05-15T13:06:42+00:00

Dude...How about f off and respect her? She said what she wants, not casual sex. She can make up her own mind.

k1ngk0ngwl · 2012-05-15T19:31:47+00:00

Just go out and have fun with her. Provide opportunities for it to happen. Drive a few hours to a concert, get a hotel room. Cook dinner at your place or her place. There are a million ways. Just keep escalating. Feel her out on what turns her on. Is it her ear lobes? The nape of her neck? If I have ever been making out with a girl on a couch or a bed, I have gone all the way. If there are times it didn't happen, it was because I was still in high school with a bit to learn about women's bodies.

Just like you, they have a point when they just can't take it any longer and really, really want to get off.

2012-05-14T22:49:20+00:00

Can't really give you any specific advice other than calibrating your behavior to the particular girl. Some girls have pretty set standards that aren't going to budge for any guy. Others are more flexible.

Let me share my example: About a month ago I had my first ever random ONS, and right before we got down to business she told me that she'd never had random sex before (she didn't know that I was the same way). I'd met her about 2 hours beforehand, I'm only in town for the weekend, and we live far apart. Her friend got creeped out by another guy and was ready to bail, and right before my girl left I grabbed her, made out with her, and told her "If you leave now you'll never see me again." She responded by inviting me back to her place.

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