How to F close off dating app in one night?

Chad1738 · 2018-09-18T16:01:43+00:00

You aren't trying to build comfort at this point if its a quick ONS. You need to just go for the meetup. I got a good opener going "wanna come over and do my laundry for me while I play video games?"...Some girls will turn it sexual and then I can do some sexual banter back and forth for a bit, get the number, and then text for a meetup. She'll either be down to meetup or she won't, most girls wont want to fuck right away but you will find some who do. good luck.

atticusfinch1973 · 2018-09-18T19:38:50+00:00

Some apps (like Tinder) have a feature where you can tell it you're in a different location. One time I did this while traveling and started swiping and matching three days before I got there. As a result I had a bunch of matches and three dates lined up before I even landed. I got laid that weekend.

The other advantage of traveling is you can literally be anyone you want. I always used picture of me with my band and pretended we were in town for a weekend for a show. Or one time there was a film festival going on so I pretended I was an actor in a movie.

[deleted] · 2018-09-18T18:05:32+00:00

I recommend stating up front in your bio that you are just in town for the night. That will make it a lot harder to find girls that want to meet up, but they'll be much more likely to have sex with you when they do. Your worst case scenario is spending an evening with a boring/annoying girl that isn't DTF, not chilling at the hotel bar or watching football.

Then, I recommend using an adaptive approach to your messages. The night before, you can attempt to go back and forth a bit and build some rapport. As you get into the day of, start getting more direct. The direct approach will scare away more women, but also lead to a faster meetup with those that are interested. About 1 in 6 or 7 matches that text back and forth will agree to an explicit ONS.

If you have multiple options, be more direct and go with whomever is receptive.

Avoid being *too* direct. Don't say you want to hookup or have sex. Say you're just "looking for sexy fun time friends", or "to have some fun".

Finally, one thing that I find helps an enormous amount when arranging hookups (ONS or regular) is to frame it as *your* boundary. Say something like, "I'm only looking for xyz right now". Make sex with you the consolation prize. Assume that she would want you as her boyfriend and reject her, then offer sex. The more implicit this is, the better. Guys tend to say "hey you want me to give you amazing sex tonight?" blah blah blah. That's actually quite needy as you are essentially asking/begging for sex. Frame it as you being willing to have sex with her, but not more.

oytrp · 2018-09-18T15:58:14+00:00

Just like anything else.

Isolate and escalate. The hard part is finding someone willing to meet that night.

Dating9throwaway9 · 2018-09-18T16:06:52+00:00

Be way higher SMV

RedSkeller · 2018-09-18T22:28:27+00:00

Swipe recently active, go to the bars while you swipe and chat while swiping. Put something along the lines of 'looking for fun people' or 'show me around'. Something good is bound to happen.

HurricaneHugues · 2018-09-18T22:47:49+00:00

There is no dark magic or advanced science involved. Sex takes 2 people to happen. Each person has to desire the other person. The only way to get sex faster is to be really desirable to your potential partner.

In other words: Be really fucming attractive, and don't be unattractive.

Thats like asking how to get a job really fast. The answer is to have a very strong resume that would appeal to a potential employer so that they can reach out to you fast and expedite the process. When they see a good potential employee with a great track record, they will want to snatch him up first before he competition does it.

Title	How to F close off dating app in one night?
Author	Scuzzin
Upvotes	4
Comments	16
Date	September 18, 2018 3:49 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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