Just found this subreddit, but I've been following most of the advice for a while now before discovering it. I'm dating 4 girls and constantly meeting new ones, but I have an issue with one in particular (she's the most attractive and fun of the lot).

Backstory: I was on a date at a free comedy show with a girl HB7, and this other girl HB8.5 and her (also hot, but visiting the city) cousin are in the tiny audience. I drive my date home and realize I left my credit card at the bar, and I have plans for the rest of the weekend so I wouldn't be able to go back later to get the card, she offers to come back with me, but I say no it's OK. Anyways, I get back there and while waiting to close out my card, open these two girls, and isolate the HB8.5, she is giving me lots of buying signals and then asks 'Where's your girlfriend?' and I tell her that it was a first date and she laughs and I get her number.

We been on three dates before yesterday and we had sex on the night of the last date (and the morning for that matter). We made plans to go on a day trip memorial day, and yesterday we texted and I invited her to come along with some friends later that night. She ends up inviting me to an early dinner with her friends (4 girls and 1 other guy) and I end up just hanging out with them all night instead of meeting up with my friends.

She's very friendly and gets hit on a lot, but I don't let it phase me and talk with her hot friend some (friend starts touching me and pulling me closer.) Other guy is trying pretty hard to play game on her friend and her as well. We end going outside to leave as a group but everyone else is still upstairs so us 2 bail and hit up a hilariously skeezy karaoke bar.

She comes home, but we are both pretty drunk and we end up falling asleep naked. This morning we start making out but my efforts to escalate past nipples/fingering are largely failing and we don't hook up and she leaves.

I feel like I'm making backwards progress here, as sex should have been a sure thing. She invited me to hang out with her friends tonight again, but I'm going to be busy - which I'm sure is the right move (either at a BBQ or dating another girl)

But then I'm not sure what to do about Monday- do I just go forward on the date as planned, or should I not contact her unless she contacts me?

I don't want to get retroactively makeout-friend zoned.