Different Techniques for How Long You've Known a Girl

AnlRushr · 2012-06-16T14:07:10+00:00

A girl's a girl, dude. Kino isn't something you should be using as your "new technique", it should come naturally as a result of you expressing yourself as a man. Do what feels right to you.

kdelamont · 2012-06-16T15:26:13+00:00

Kino is one of the most misunderstood topics on here I think. Stuff like the Vin DiCarlo escalation ladder perpetuate the myth (in my mind) that you can just escalate kino all the way to sex, which I think is a bit of a misnomer.

The sexual tension must be there for the kino to have maximum effect. Now, this is sort of paradoxical because kino makes for extreme sexual tension: I personally find that I don't really deliberately seek to escalate the kino until their is a well-established level of sexual tension that I create through building attraction and incidental kino. Allow me to flesh this idea out a little bit more. I usually try to build sexual tension BEFORE kino comes into play through conversation and standard attraction building methods, and eye contact. Eye contact is one of the more under-represented factors on this forum, but that shit is powerful as fuck. If I feel like there's some sexual attraction built, I might look at a girl, dead in the eyes, until one of us smiles/laughs/sheepishly breaks eye contact. I find that this is the best route to sexual tension.

The takeaway from this is that kino works best as an acknowledgement of sexual tension and as a small release of it. Proper kino (past incidental touches) acknowledges your interest, acknowledges the sexual tension and just gives her enough of a release to want more, which she will hopefully seek in greater quantities which you, as a man who gobbles that shit up, will be happy to provide for her.

My point in relation to your question is that kino is not a thing that depends on the girl - it depends entirely (in my opinion) on the sexual tension you have built, regardless of the woman.

dcone1212 · 2012-06-16T17:26:51+00:00

One thing to be careful of, when drinking you WILL miss the subtle "back off a little" queues. So if you're new to touching and being flirty, do it when you're sober so you don't come on creepy.

Easy one besides shaking hands is arm around the shoulder (picture at a bar watching TV and approaching from behind to someone you already met). Do it in a playful manor for a few seconds, then take it off and just chat. Little things like that.

It also doesnt have to be touching. Just stand SLIGHTLY closer than you ever would to a someone youre not interested in. Invade their personal space a tiny bit to give the message. Next time youre in public, notice two guys talking, and a couple talking. The couple will be closer than the two guys by a tiny bit

Title	Different Techniques for How Long You've Known a Girl
Author	redsavage0
Upvotes	30
Comments	20
Date	June 16, 2012 1:55 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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