I'm kind of shy around girls, and I have no clue how to talk to them online on Facebook, how can I improve that?

Wideskream · 2012-07-02T02:56:12+00:00

Practice on real girls in real life.

edgar_alan_bro · 2012-07-02T03:30:35+00:00

My advice to you would be to go out and talk to girls in real life. Your only 18 so that means you can't go to bars and most clubs but don't worry! Practice daygame. Go out to the mall and chat girls up, really anywhere is possible not just the mall. If you need some guides or videos I'd suggest you check out Sasha daygame on YouTube or on the sidebar.

capitulum · 2012-07-02T03:31:28+00:00

Facebook is a poor medium for pick-up. It's less personal than texting. I'd stay away from Facebook

2012-07-02T03:45:21+00:00

You situation isn't unique, just do what everybody else here does: bite the bullet and start grinding every day, chatting up girls you like.

throw_away_ugly · 2012-07-02T05:05:54+00:00

Pretend they are boys and just say hi, hello, yo, watsup, etcc.

keep the initial talk small. Ask small questions regarding something specific, and then move up to longer chats on random things like movies, games, tv shows, music.. anything that you both like really.

And.. that's it! See where it goes from there. Just remember to look at them as humans! I know most of them looks like they would be angels.. but believe me, they still have human brains and don't be too worried when talking to them :)

landoesen · 2012-07-02T04:31:45+00:00

Don't feed the troll.

BinaryShadow · 2012-07-02T07:37:01+00:00

lol at your hyperness. You're 18. "Young, dumb, and full of cum" as a wise man once said in a movie called Point Break.

So you apparently have opened sets with girls on Facebook, or at least charmed them enough in real life to set up some kind of communications medium. Well done.

If they are just a window on your computer screen, ask for a phone number. The point is to move it closer to real life interaction. If you're not good with online-game, then move it away from that.

dumcumster · 2012-07-02T08:43:15+00:00

in the past 4 days i've had only one day 2 success story (and it only ended in k-close,) whereas i've:

-missed out on a "fool's mate" threesome
-got a fake number from a girl i actually liked
-received no reply to a text
-was stonewalled after a successful open but poor follow-through (lord she was hot... just my type too)
-lost numerous other sets i can't count (at least 6)
and to top it off:
-nearly got into a fight. guy was serious. had that crazed look in his eyes reserved for dudes who just LIKE to fight. had to pull my knife and square-up to scare him off (an aside: i recommend anybody going out there solo to carry some kind of weapon. some dudes just can't beat you with words so they'll use their fists. at least if you have a knife you can surprise a mother fucker and make them think twice.)

so basically i experienced as much rejection in 4 days as you've probably experienced IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE. i'm not gonna lie and say it doesn't bother me... it's annoying and i'd rather not be rejected, but that's just the nature of pick-up and a fact of socializing.

there's a saying i like that looks and feels like a double-edged sword:

"you'll probably never see them again."

when i started gaming this use to depress me... that a connection i made or could've made with somebody is lost because i'll probably never see them again. i use to take that phrase as a warning that you should contact close as fast as you can (and you should,) but it has taken on a new meaning for me: don't be afraid to fail. you're probably never gonna see them again so what difference does their opinion make? i mean, how many assholes have you met in your life? can you recall each and every one of those assholes? you know how many god damn assholes walk this earth? you'd be crazy to catalog them all.

so my advice to you is to get used to shrugging it off. go fail if that's what it takes to get some ass.

24rubikscube · 2012-07-02T11:31:12+00:00

sidebar ------->

Online is the same as real life. Welcome to the journey.

Daniel_Vercetti · 2012-07-02T02:56:28+00:00

Hey mate,

My buddy Cajun just came out with a great book that covers everything about online dating/IMs/profile pictures, etc.

Here is a link to some videos he did with tips http://www.theattractionforums.com/online-game-ims/152088-online-dating-videos-advice.html

ALso we have a forum dedicated to online game here: http://www.theattractionforums.com/online-game-ims/

Title	I'm kind of shy around girls, and I have no clue how to talk to them online on Facebook, how can I improve that?
Author	BarelyOriginal
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Date	July 2, 2012 2:25 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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