I've been told many times that I'm incredible in the sack, but also that I'm a pretty romantic lover. I don't try to be, and I definitely don't say anything sappy or do really tender things like stroke their face or hair. I just use my hands a lot and really pay attention to what they want. The result is that girls tend to think that I have really romantic feelings for them, and that I'm LTR material. This isn't really what I want to convey, but I'm not sure how to change what I do without sacrificing good sex.

Have any of you noticed anything about how the sex you have impacts the relationship later? Have you had to make any changes? Let's hear it.