How do you lower your standards?

dramaticternofevents · 2012-08-19T16:44:06+00:00

You want to have sex with people you don't want to have sex with?

What a curious problem.

2012-08-19T16:36:22+00:00

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ThrowawayPUA · 2012-08-19T21:08:21+00:00

The goal is to raise your standards, not lower them. If you get women to qualify themselves and expect them to meet high standards, they will try to meet them.

H4UNT · 2012-08-20T02:52:59+00:00

/r/NoFap

2012-08-20T04:30:49+00:00

Don't lower your standards, step up your game

And remember hot girls aren't a different species from the others. If you can game an HB 5 or 6 then step it up just a bit and start pulling 8s, 9s and 10s

guru7892 · 2012-08-20T05:08:19+00:00

Go to an engineering college?

riceguy01 · 2012-08-20T02:13:34+00:00

If you don't find someone truly attractive it makes things harder on yourself. Why would you want to share intimate experiences with someone you don't truly like?

I have tried to date girls who deep down I knew they didn't meet my standards. Instead of looking for someone else, I decided to settle for them and go for it anyways.. And it never worked out. I felt like I was trying to get laid for the sake of my personal image not for personal interest. Eventually my lack of respect for them ruined everything.

Keep your standards. Spend time with someone you actually have interest in. You'll feel true to yourself and the things you do will be authentic and not manipulative. Shoot for quality over quantity. Good luck.

2012-08-20T06:44:57+00:00

What the hell did I just read? The whole purpose of this sub-reddit is to improve your game!

kingnutter · 2012-08-20T16:27:37+00:00

Don't go for looks then. Go for women who have desirable personalities.

Or there are plenty of larger ladies that are beautiful that wouldn't be considered hot in this sub.

Girls are often much more interesting when they don't depend on their looks for attention and can be incredibly passionate in the sack!

GeneralRouge · 2012-08-22T04:29:16+00:00

figure out what exactly you find attractive. I really like a cute face and a smile that melts me. I also like curvy, hourglass shaped bodies. Cute personality definitely helps too.

A perfect girl for me is on the average end of the curvy body type (I actually like some meat), but I'm still into a heavier girl if her face is really cute. Of course, I still have my weight limits and am not into obese women.

My hb7 could easily be other people's hb5, but who cares. I find a "cute" hb7 more attractive than a "hot" girl with a nice body but a less attractive face and personality.

Also, I've had great sexual experiences with these women. That has to be fuelling my desire to some extent.

budguy68 · 2012-08-19T17:45:53+00:00

I tend to be attracted to girls that hit on me. but i guess iam just a slut sometimes.

Title	How do you lower your standards?
Author	bertweaze
Upvotes	4
Comments	11
Date	August 19, 2012 4:20 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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