Any one else get this? Whenever I don't fall in to their frame like 90% of other guys do, women get angry at me when I have done no noticeable thing wrong. Some of them go ape-shit (and others really love me, but more dislike me than like me). It seems I cannot get a neutral response from a confident/outgoing girl. They have to have formulated something about me in their minds and this reflects heavily in their aggressive behaviour (and others in their extreme IOIs). This mostly happens at work (I work in different bars/restaurants every week and meet a lot of girls this way). They often get very very bossy and demand that I do trivial things. When I refuse with a smile or playfully tease on their bossiness, this does not work.

I must also note that these things never used to happen, only recently when I underwent changes in the last year quitting porn and meditating daily. These two things have allowed me to be comfortable with my self and my own frame.

Any one have any tips for my situation? I could put on some fake supplicating facial expressions and comments, but this really just isn't me.