I got into this 5 years ago: 3 years ago I got into an LTR that has lasted until now: Im ready to get back into the game. Just one snag: Breaking up

amyers · 2012-08-22T05:15:56+00:00

So you found a keeper too early in life? That's ok. I prefer quality over quantity, but if you feel like you're too young to settle - nothing wrong with that!

how to deal with the break up: Realize that relationships are more like vacations than business investments. what I mean by that is some business investments don't work out, the parties involved in a business deal that went sout usually walk away angry/upset when all is said and done.

Relationships are more like vacations. When they come to an end you shouldn't be angry, you shouldn't feel like you wasted time. You should be thankful for the good experiences your had. The things you learned and the memories you formed.

... But sometimes they come to an end and that's ok.

Supajin · 2012-08-22T06:05:54+00:00

So you found the girl you would want to spend the rest of your life with but you want to break up with her to enjoy your youth and sleep with a ton of chicks...?

Seems a bit reckless to abandon the relationship so quickly if its going well, I figured the whole endgame to seddit was to find your lifelong partner eventually and if you found her so early why let her go yaknow

pballa4eva · 2012-08-22T13:40:18+00:00

Im going to be blunt....as I was in the same situation 6 mos. ago. there were alot of neg things about the relationship i was in but one huge thing that my selfish dick couldnt get over. I settled for a 6.5 because of her personality and safety. those made her an 8.5 to me. but as time went on she went back down to the 6.5 and as selfish as it was I couldnt get over it plus being mixed with everything else going on. so. Be honest with yourself. even if you make yourself sound like an asshole. Are you upset because you settled with a not so attractive girl to get the cash in qaulities? if she were a 9 right of the bat would you be thinking the same things your thinking now?

sixxis · 2012-08-22T16:29:22+00:00

This is certainly a gamble. If she really is a "keeper", guarenteed some other guy will come along and lock that down after you guys break up. On the other hand, there may be a girl out there that you fit even better with. I've given up a couple girls worth keeping in hopes to meet new girls. I would say that I regret letting them both go, but if I hadn't I wouldn't be the person I am today, which I'm happy being.

I'd spend some time really thinking about if you want to take the gamble of losing her, and possibly never talking to her again. It's a serious decision. It might even help to make a list of all the things you like about her and all the things you dont. If the things you dont like about her greatly outway the things you do, then bail.

puaCurveBall · 2012-08-22T19:45:33+00:00

Cool story bro.

What does having "next level" game get you in this life? Isn't the point of game to be able to find high quality women?

Do you think Bill Gates is happy because he has more money than he can spend? Would you really be satisfied with just a long line of pussy that never stops? Isn't there more to life?

It sounds like you have absolutely no idea what your priorities are in life (which hey... is fine because you are 21)... The best thing you can do is just be honest and break up with her. Tell her you think becoming better with women is more important than your relationship, and break it off. It will give her closure, and you won't fuck her up by inventing some stupid reason or trying to manipulate your way out of things.

Catmanly · 2012-08-23T07:00:56+00:00

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