I suppose this is somewhat of an FR, but being new, I am unsure if dates count as such.

I just started learning game 2 weeks ago, applied what I learned, and got 2 dates this past week - HB7 and HB6. The date with HB6 sucked because she was lame.

Date with HB7 went well, but went waaaay too long (Lesson 1 - plan this shit out). She started shit testing me once things got boring near the end of the date and I didn't even realize it! Shifted to beta mode once I got too comfortable and bombed (Lesson 2 - watch for transitions in the dynamics of the interaction). I ended the date with an awkward bye. Any tips on how to end and transition a 1st date?

The major failure of this date was very little kino and inability to create sexual tension. I guess that's what practice is for.

I walked away pissed at myself and thought I had wasted my time. I thought it was a missed opportunity. But, she was dressed like she wanted me to fuck her, and she even attempted to make up for my lack of kino skills - briefly, so...game on. I reviewed what I had learned, assessed the situation, and negged her via text. If she didn't react the way she did (or at all), it was a lost cause. Got the right reaction (she made an excuse)...I'm pretty sure I'm in. Next, another playful neg to make up for my betaness and create some tension, and then told her we're going to see a movie on the weekend (aka sexalation and she knows it).

But, she tells me she's going out of town to spend the long weekend with her family, and suggests meeting next week.

I'm not sure what she's communicating.

On the date she pulled a similar stunt saying that after the date she had to go to this thing that she did't really want to, but has to. In retrospect, I'm fairly certain she wanted me to take her home. But, I have no idea what's the score this time around.

I was thinking of countering with a message along the lines of your family is boring and I'm fun (obviously I will be craftier)- but I don't want to make her think I am trying to impress her. I'm basically going to try to get her to split her weekend so part of it is with me and part with her family. If it fails, then it'll just make me look like I really want to get with her.

On the other hand, I could just send an aloof text: k. Leave it at that and then let her get in touch with me next week. The downside risk is that if she is actually communicating a test and I just let her go it will decrease attraction and most importantly increase the amount of time it will take me to get some.

Would appreciate any input. This subreddit is the shit and I've learned a ton so far.

Edit: Just re-read her message. She asked me: Hm, what about next week? I'm actually going home for the long weekend...is she subtly asking my permission or just trying to make sure we get together in the future?